Saturday, July 05, 2014

SERMON: SEVEN DEADLY SINS: ENVY




22 June 2014

I.  Introduction
            -- turn in Bibles to Genesis 4:1-13

Genesis 4:1-13 (NIV)
1 Adam lay with his wife Eve, and she became pregnant and gave birth to Cain. She said, "With the help of the LORD I have brought forth a man."
2 Later she gave birth to his brother Abel. Now Abel kept flocks, and Cain worked the soil.
3 In the course of time Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil as an offering to the LORD.
4 But Abel brought fat portions from some of the firstborn of his flock. The LORD looked with favor on Abel and his offering,
5 but on Cain and his offering he did not look with favor. So Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast.
6 Then the LORD said to Cain, "Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast?
7 If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must master it."
8 Now Cain said to his brother Abel, "Let's go out to the field." And while they were in the field, Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him.
9 Then the LORD said to Cain, "Where is your brother Abel?" "I don't know," he replied. "Am I my brother's keeper?"
10 The LORD said, "What have you done? Listen! Your brother's blood cries out to me from the ground.
11 Now you are under a curse and driven from the ground, which opened its mouth to receive your brother's blood from your hand.
12 When you work the ground, it will no longer yield its crops for you. You will be a restless wanderer on the earth."
13 Cain said to the LORD, "My punishment is more than I can bear.

            -- as I mentioned last week, we are going to be starting a new sermon series today on a subject nobody in the church really likes to talk about in specific terms -- the subject of sin
            -- we don't mind talking about sin in general -- as in, "Jesus died for our sins" -- but we don't like to get into the specifics -- to start naming sin -- to start talking about sin in specifics -- because, as one person told me one day, "Pastor, you've gone from preaching to meddling"
            -- when we stop talking about sin as a general concept and start talking about sin in specifics, it hits home really quickly and it gets really uncomfortable, but maybe that's what we need more of in our churches in America today -- a little less comfortable and a lot more stepping on toes to get us right with Jesus

            -- it reminds me of the story I heard about a young associate pastor who had just started serving in a new church -- one Sunday morning he got up and walked outside the parsonage and discovered his bicycle was missing -- he couldn't find it anywhere and he went to his senior pastor and said, "I think my bicycle was stolen last night" -- so the senior pastor suggested that the associate preach a sermon on the ten commandments that morning and really hit hard on "thou shalt not steal"
            -- so the associate got up and preached his message on the ten commandments -- and when it was over, the senior pastor came up to him and said, "that was a real fine sermon, but I really expected you to hit the commandment about stealing a lot harder than you did" -- the associate pastor hung his head and said, "well, I was planning to, but when I started preaching on "thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife," I remembered where I left my bicycle"

            -- other than grace, sin is the one common denominator in the church -- sin is the one thing we all share, and it knows no bounds -- it touches each and every one of us, regardless of race, age, sex, national origin, or position in the church
            -- every single person on earth -- every single person in this room -- is a sinner -- we are born sinners through original sin -- and because we are born sinners, sin is a part of our lives -- as it says in Romans 3:23, "all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God"
            -- and as you know, even Christians -- even those who name the name of Christ -- who have been washed in the blood of the Lamb and walk in His grace and righteousness -- even we continue to sin because we choose to disobey God and seek to fulfill our own desires in ungodly ways
            -- and so we embark on this journey together this morning to explore the path of sin -- not that we might glorify sin in any way -- but that we might expose it to the light, so that we might put it to death in our bodies through the power of the Holy Spirit and the outpouring of grace through Christ's atoning death on the cross

II.  The Seven Deadly Sins
            -- I have been led to focus this series on what is known historically in the church as the Seven Deadly Sins
            -- now, you need to know the modern list of the seven deadly sins is not found in the Bible -- there are other lists of sins in the Bible, but these seven have been focused on in the church because they are considered capital or cardinal sins -- sins which can open the door to other sins in our lives -- in other words, when one of these sins gets a foothold in our lives, it can start a downward spiral of sin and disobedience in us
            -- and, even though we put these sins forth as the seven deadly sins, don't mistake these sins as being worse than others -- they are worse only in their action of leading to other sins -- never forget, God does not distinguish degrees of sin -- a sin is a sin is a sin -- the sin of murder is just as heinous in the eyes of God as the sin of gossip -- the sin of adultery is just as bad as the sin of telling a lie -- if you break just one commandment -- if you commit just one sin -- the Bible says you have broken the entire law and are condemned by your actions -- so don't confuse that as we go through this series -- all sins are equal in the eyes of God -- we are just focusing on these seven because they are recognized as gateway sins by the church
            -- real quick, let me list the seven deadly sins for you and then we're going to go straight into the first of the seven I want to talk about -- the seven deadly sins recognized by the church today are:
            -- wrath -- unrighteous anger
            -- greed -- excessive pursuit of material possessions
            -- slothfulness, which is physical or spiritual laziness
            -- pride -- exalting yourself above others or especially above God
            -- lust -- which is not just the desire for others as a sexual object, but also the desire for things someone else possesses+
            -- gluttony -- which is not just over-indulgence of food, but the over-indulgence or over-consumption of anything -- this can be too much food or too much TV
            -- and, finally, envy -- which we're going to talk about in a lot more detail today
           
III.  Envy (Genesis 4:1-13)
            -- so what is envy? -- what does it look like? -- how do we define it?
            -- envy is a form of covetousness -- envy is desiring another person's traits, status, abilities or rewards for yourself, but taking it one step further -- not only desiring it for yourself, but wanting to deprive the other person from having it
            -- a lot of times we confuse envy with jealousy -- we think they're the same thing, but they are two completely different concepts -- as we said, envy is desiring what another person is or what another person rightfully has
            -- jealousy is when you possess something and you don't want to share it or you fear it will be taken away by another person -- jealousy is when something is rightfully yours, and you don't want to give it away
            -- envy is always a sin, but jealousy is not -- the Bible describes God as a jealous God -- it also says that God is jealous for us -- think about it like this -- God rightfully possesses all honor and glory and power and He is to be worshiped and honored above all things -- the sin of the Israelites was taking their worship from God and giving it to idols -- God was jealous in the sense that something that was owed to Him was given to something else
            -- there are some things we possess that are not meant to be shared -- and when we are jealous of those things, that is not a sin -- but, when we don't share other possessions simply because we're greedy or don't want someone else to have it out of selfish purposes, then jealousy can be a sin
            -- but envy is always a sin, because it seeks personal exaltation at the expense of another person

            -- you can clearly see the problem with envy in the story of Wanda Holloway, the Texas cheerleader mother -- if you remember her story, Wanda Holloway's daughter had tried out for a spot on her junior high cheerleading squad, but lost out to another girl -- Wanda was livid that someone else should have the spot she felt her daughter deserved -- she was envious of that other girl's cheerleading position
            -- so she contacted her ex-brother-in-law and asked him to hire a hitman to kill the other girl's mother -- Wanda thought that the girl would be so upset at the death of her mother, she would quit the team and the spot would automatically go to the runner-up -- Wanda's daughter
            -- thankfully, the ex-brother-in-law went to the police, Wanda was arrested and ended up serving 10 years in prison for conspiracy to murder -- all because of the sin of envy

            -- Wanda's story shows the danger of envy as a cardinal sin -- envy opened the door to other sins -- in this case envy led to rivalry, conflict, hatred, and eventually the desire for murder just to get what someone else possessed
            -- we see that same pattern here in Genesis 4 in the first recorded instance of envy in the Bible, the familiar story of Cain and Abel
            -- let's look back at this passage and see where Cain's downfall began
            -- verse 1-2a

Genesis 4:1-2a (NIV)
1 Adam lay with his wife Eve, and she became pregnant and gave birth to Cain. She said, "With the help of the LORD I have brought forth a man."
2 Later she gave birth to his brother Abel.

            -- now before we go further, let me point out one thing here -- when Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden, God made a promise to them -- God promised that a Savior would come from the seed of the woman who would crush the head of the serpent and destroy the works of sin and death forever
            -- when Cain was born, it appears Eve assumed this was the son of prophecy -- that Cain was the chosen one -- that Cain was the promised Messiah -- and maybe this led to his ultimate downfall
            -- perhaps, and this is only speculation, perhaps Cain was told his whole life how special he was -- how much better he was than Abel and all of Adam and Eve's unnamed daughters -- perhaps he became somewhat spoiled and felt he deserved all of the acclaim and the glory rather than his siblings -- perhaps pride opened the door to his ultimate sin of envy

            -- look at the second part of verse 2b-5

Now Abel kept flocks, and Cain worked the soil.
3 In the course of time Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil as an offering to the LORD.
4 But Abel brought fat portions from some of the firstborn of his flock. The LORD looked with favor on Abel and his offering,
5 but on Cain and his offering he did not look with favor. So Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast.

            -- so Cain and Abel both brought offerings to God as a means of worship -- Cain, being a farmer, brought some of the fruit of the land to God -- while Abel, a shepherd, brought fat portions from the firstborn of the flock
            -- now while it's not really relevant to our subject today, there is something to note here -- Abel's offering came from the firstborn -- from the best of his flock -- while the scripture just says Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil to the Lord -- note that it doesn't say Cain brought the firstfruits or that Cain brought the best of the harvest -- he just brought "some" of the fruits
            -- in other words Abel offered his best to God while Cain did not -- and God accepted Abel's offering, but did not accept Cain's -- so Cain got angry and his face was downcast

            -- verse 6-7

6 Then the LORD said to Cain, "Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast?
7 If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must master it."

            -- Cain's anger was unrighteous, and God warned him about it -- God told Cain to do what is right -- another indication that Cain's offering was not from the firstfruits -- and said if you do what is right, your offering will be accepted
            -- God could see the sin and temptation raging through Cain's heart -- He tells Cain he must master it -- he must make the choice to do what is right -- he must choose to turn away from sin and turn towards righteousness -- but Cain chose differently

            -- verse 8-13

8 Now Cain said to his brother Abel, "Let's go out to the field." And while they were in the field, Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him.
9 Then the LORD said to Cain, "Where is your brother Abel?" "I don't know," he replied. "Am I my brother's keeper?"
10 The LORD said, "What have you done? Listen! Your brother's blood cries out to me from the ground.
11 Now you are under a curse and driven from the ground, which opened its mouth to receive your brother's blood from your hand.
12 When you work the ground, it will no longer yield its crops for you. You will be a restless wanderer on the earth."
13 Cain said to the LORD, "My punishment is more than I can bear.

            -- the end of the story we know so well -- Cain took Abel into the field and killed him -- and when confronted by God, Cain lied about his actions and was ultimately cursed by God for his sin
            -- this story of Cain is multifaceted -- the sins of anger and pride and rivalry and conflict and hatred and murder weave their way through this sad narrative
            -- but if you look at the ultimate cause of Cain's downfall, you have to ascribe it to one thing -- envy
            -- God accepted Abel's offering -- God looked with favor on Abel, and not on Cain -- and Cain wanted it -- Cain wanted what Abel had -- he wanted the acclaim -- he wanted the favor God had given Abel for himself -- he wanted it and he didn't want Abel to have it -- and so, as in the case of Wanda Holloway, envy led to murder

            -- envy is an insidious disease of the heart -- envy can eat you up from the inside out -- envy can lead you to more and greater sins -- anytime you strive for another's downfall, it will ultimately lead to your own

            -- Dwight L. Moody once told the fable of an eagle who was envious of another eagle that could fly better than he could -- One day the bird saw a sportsman with a bow and arrow and said to him, “I wish you would bring down that eagle up there.”
            -- The man said he would if he had some feathers for his arrow -- so the envious eagle pulled one out of his wing -- the man took aim and shot at the eagle's rival, but the arrow didn’t quite reach the other bird because he was flying too high above the ground
            -- The first eagle pulled out another feather, then another—until he had lost so many that he himself couldn’t fly -- the archer realized what had just happened and, remembering the old proverb, "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush," took advantage of the situation -- he turned around and killed the helpless bird and took an eagle home to his family
            -- the point of this fable is clear -- when you are envious of others, the one you hurt the most by your actions will always be yourself
[http://www.sermoncentral.com/illustrations/sermon-illustration-lou-nicholes-stories-envy-18759.asp]

            -- Wanda Holloway's envy led to her desire to kill another person and her imprisonment for 10 years -- Cain's envy led to hatred, murder, and a lifelong curse from God
           
IV.  Closing
            -- so what do we do about envy? -- how can we master this sin in our own lives?
            -- I think the key is recognizing the power of envy comes from the side-long glance at others -- envy is the result of comparing ourselves to those around us
            -- in 1 Corinthians the Apostle Paul wrote to a church struggling with spiritual envy -- members of the church were desiring the more visible spiritual gifts -- they were envious of God's blessings on others and were following the path of Cain
            -- so Paul counseled them to stop looking at others, but to look at themselves and how God was using them in the body of Christ -- we can't all be the eye, Paul said -- we can't all be the hands and the feet -- in order to have a body, you have to have all parts present -- and while you may think the eye or the hands or the feet are the better part, every part is essential and every part is needed
            -- don't desire what another has, but look at what you possess and use it to the glory of God
            -- the key to mastering envy in our lives is to quit looking at the gifts of another and appreciating what we have ourselves

            -- In her new book, Linda Ronstadt, the 11-time Grammy Award singer, recalls the first time she heard fellow singer Emmylou Harris:
            -- "My first reaction to it was slightly conflicted. First, I loved her singing wildly.
            -- "Second, in my opinion, she was doing what I was trying to do, only a whole lot better.
            -- "Then came a split-second decision that I made that affected the way I listened to and enjoyed music for the rest of my life -- I thought that if I allowed myself to become envious of Emmy, it would be painful to listen to her, and I would deny myself the pleasure of it.
            -- "If I simply surrendered to loving what she did, I could take my rightful place among the other drooling Emmylou fans, and then maybe, just maybe, I might be able to sing with her. I surrendered."
            -- Linda went on to not only sing with Emmy, but also record three award-winning albums with her and Dolly Parton as a trio.
[Linda Ronstadt, Linda Ronstadt: Simple Dreams, a Musical Memoir (Simon Schuster, 2013), pp. 79-80; submitted by Van Morris, Mt. Washington, Kentucky --
http://www.preachingtoday.com/illustrations/2013/october/3101413.html]

            -- rather than looking at another person's gifts and talents and position with envy, we should celebrate what God is doing in them and through them -- you know, I look at the people around me and it's easy to become envious of them -- I never was popular in school -- I never was one of the cool kids -- I wasn't comfortable being around people -- talking to people -- sharing with them -- and it's still that way today
            -- but I have to come to understand God has just made some people more likable than me -- more outgoing -- more encouraging -- He's certainly made better preachers and better teachers -- there are people who are so comfortable and so easy with evangelism and sharing their faith and inviting people to church and I think, "I want that -- I want to be able to do that"
            -- but I've come to realize that is not me -- that's not who God made me to be -- and that's okay -- I can look at those people and see how God is using them and say, "You're doing a great job for the kingdom!" -- I can call them and say, "Hey, I've got a friend I want you to talk to," and I know they'll do much more than I ever could
            -- it's a choice I have to make to not be envious of them -- it's a choice I have to make every day
            -- and I make that choice by casting my gaze off them and onto myself -- and when I quit looking at what I don't have and start looking at what I do have, I can see how I fit in God's picture -- I can see how God uses me in ways these other people can't be used -- I may not be an eye or a hand or a foot, but God uses kneecaps, too

            -- the key to avoiding envy is to stop looking out and start looking in -- and when you do look outwards and see another's talents or gifts or position or status, celebrate it and encourage them to use their blessings for God
            -- envy is overcomable -- envy is a choice -- so choose wisely today
            -- let's pray

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