Sunday, December 21, 2025

SERMON: LOVE CAME DOWN AT CHRISTMAS

 


Naylor Community Christian Church

Naylor, Georgia

 

I.  Introduction

-- turn in Bibles to John 3:16

 

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

 

-- as we begin this morning, I want to tell you a story about a dog named Elijah and how God used him to show me how much God truly loves us

-- as most of you know, I work at Moody AFB, and I began my career there as a wildlife biologist – so, as part of my job, I would spend the day out in the woods and the wild places of the base – taking care of the natural resources and the wildlife

-- One day I was out away from my office, and in the middle of the woods, I ran across a shaggy little poodle running around -- He was extremely dirty, covered with mats and he had briars and cockleburs caught in his coat -- He had a rope around his neck with a long piece that was hanging down – so, it looked like he had been tied up but had somehow gotten loose. 

-- I started calling him Elijah, because I thought that this must have been what the prophet Elijah looked like, according to the Bible

-- Elijah was obviously lost and alone and afraid – and since we are dog people, my first instinct was to see if I could catch him and take care of him and find him a home – but Elijah wouldn’t have any of that -- he was terrified of me and would run off every time I approached

-- I decided it was time to bring in the big guns, so I took Kim with me over to the last place I had seen him – we pulled up, and there he was, standing in the road – scruffy and dirty and disheveled with that rope hanging down – Kim did her best to catch him, but got the same result – he wouldn’t come to her no matter how sweet she talked and pleaded with him

-- We tried enticing him to us with food, but his fear was still too great – it was obvious that we weren’t going to catch him on our own

-- so, we came up with another idea – we got another poodle that was the same size as him and brought it out to where he was -- we hoped that he wouldn't be as afraid if he saw the other dog with us and realized we weren't hurting this other dog – but that didn’t work either – he just barked and ran into the woods, looking back at us and running off every time we got closer

-- We didn't know what to do -- He was looking for help – he needed help -- but he was too afraid of us to receive it – no matter what we did, he wouldn’t come close

-- we talked about it and said, “You know, what we need is a miracle -- if there was only some way that we could speak to him in his language -- if we could become a dog for just a few minutes – he would listen to us and we could show him the way to safety”

-- and as we talked about this last impossible idea, it hit me -- This was exactly what God did for us – this was exactly what Christmas was all about

            -- When we were lost and alone and afraid – trapped in our sins and in slavery to sin and death with no way out and no hope in the world -- God became one of us

– the Lord God Almighty – the Creator of Heaven and Earth – humbled Himself and became a man just like us – He loved us so much that He came to earth at Christmas as a baby in a manger, so that through His life He might show us the Way to be reconciled to Him – giving His very life for us on the cross to conquer sin and death and break the chains that had bound us since the fall in the Garden of Eden

 

-- this morning is the fourth Sunday of Advent – the season in the church calendar that has been set aside as a means of preparing our hearts and souls for the coming of Christ – as we look forward to the celebration of Christmas and beyond to the return of Jesus at the end of days

-- if you’re like me – or, more honestly, like Kim and Brooke – you’ve been preparing for Christmas for weeks now – buying presents – decorating the house – playing Christmas music – shopping for just the right gift for that hard-to-please person – and then wrapping and wrapping and wrapping

-- it seems like the season of Advent always comes in a rush and so we just look forward to Christmas so we can get it over with and get back to our lives once again – it makes me wonder if we haven’t forgotten the true meaning of Christmas, even though we are the ones who should be pointing the world to Jesus at this time of the year

-- for instance, the church is always quick to take offense if someone tries to secularize this holiday – if they say, “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas” or if they have a winter celebration and not a Christmas celebration

-- we’re always quick to point out that the meaning of Christmas is the birth of Christ – and while we’ve got that right, that's not the whole story, is it?

 

-- a coworker asked me what I thought about a church sign that we both pass on the way to work – it said, “Christmas starts with the manger but ends with a cross” – she didn’t understand why they would put that on their sign – she told me, “Christmas doesn’t have anything to do with the cross” – but it does

-- Christmas is not just about the birth of Christ – it’s about so much more

-- to say Christmas is only about the birth of Jesus would be akin to saying that Martin Luther King, Jr day is just a celebration about the birth of Martin Luther King, Jr. -- that's not why we celebrate that holiday -- we don't celebrate that day just because a man was born -- no, we celebrate it because of what Martin Luther King, Jr. did to fight racial prejudice and injustice and to achieve civil rights for everyone

-- in the same way, Christmas is not just about the birth of Jesus, but about what the birth of Jesus meant for us -- about what the Man who was born at Christmas did on our behalf

-- Christmas is the day when we celebrate the fact that God came down to earth and wrapped Himself in flesh -- He became for us "Emmanuel" -- God with us -- for a purpose and a reason that goes far beyond the story of a baby born in a manger on a cold winter night in a small town in the Middle East

-- Christmas is the story of God loving us so much that He became a man to save us when we couldn't save ourselves

 

-- let me explain this in a different way by sharing with you the story about a little boy who loved sailboats -- one day, he decided to make his own toy sailboat -- he took a block of wood and he started carving -- every day, he would work on his boat, carefully and patiently shaping it and molding it until it looked just like a real sailboat -- he painted it and built a sail for it and it was perfect

-- when he finished creating his sailboat, he carried it down to the river near his house to play with it -- he tied a small line to the stern so that he could reel it back in after he was done -- he set it in the water and it floated and began to sail on the surface of the river just like a real boat

-- but all of a sudden, a storm came up and the wind caught the sails of his boat – the wind tugged the boat with such force that the safety line broke – and all the little boy could do was watch as his boat sailed away

-- that which he had created was gone -- he looked and looked for it, but he never could find it – he lost hope that he would ever have his boat with him again

-- but one day, as he walked past the local toy store, he looked in the window and there was his boat -- he rushed in and grabbed it up and said "it's mine -- it's mine -- I have my boat back at last" -- but the storekeeper said that if he wanted the boat, he would have to buy it

-- so, the boy worked all summer and saved his money -- finally, when he had saved enough to redeem his boat, he went back to the toy store and handed his money to the owner and took the boat out of the window

-- he hugged it to his chest and said, "You're mine -- you're mine -- I made you and you got away -- but I've got you back and I'll never let you go again"

-- that is the story of Christmas that I want you to get this morning – the story of a Creator who loved His creation so much, that when He lost us through sin in the Garden of Eden, He moved heaven and earth to get us back again – to the very point where He paid the ultimate price of sending His own Son to the cross to redeem us so that we would be His again forever

-- this is the true story of Christmas – and this is what we see in John 3:16, arguably the most recognized and famous verse in all the Bible

 


II.  Scripture Lesson

A.  John 3:16

– let’s read that together again now

 

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

 

-- here we are given the reason for this season -- Christmas is the day we celebrate the fact that God loved us so much that He refused to let us go even though we were lost -- in fact, He loved us so much that He sent His only Son to earth to die on the cross for us -- to pay the price to buy us back from bondage to sin and death -- to get back that which He had created and to never let us go again

-- it says here that God “so” loved the world – we rarely talk about that little word, “so” – but it means so much – it shows us the depth of God’s love – it shows us the heart of the Father

-- He loved us so much that He just couldn’t stand being separated from us – He loved us so much that He would give all that He had to get us back – He loved us so much that He would do anything to redeem us and reconcile us to Him

-- and I want you to understand that this love that God had was not just for the world, but for you in particular – His love was so great for you, that when He was born in the manger, you were on His mind – when He went to the cross to die in our place, it was you He was dying for – not because He had to – but because He loved you so much He couldn’t stand being apart from you any longer – that is what the “so” in this verse means

-- “For God SO loved the world, that He GAVE…” – He gave – this was a gift to us – the first Christmas gift – wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger – as Chuck Swindoll put it, God’s gift at Christmas was “doing the unexpected for the undeserving”

-- For God so loved the word, He gave us Himself -- the gift of Christmas -- wrapped in love, and delivered through a peasant girl to a world of sinners

 

-- have you ever experienced the unexpected when you were undeserving? -- just like all of you, I exchange presents with my family and friends at Christmas -- and, if you're like me, when you pick out your gift, you're always trying to match what you think they're going to spend on you -- especially if it's just a friend

-- you kind of guess what they're going to spend on their gift for you based on how close your friendship is and what they got you last year and then you go out and get them something in that price range -- we all do it -- every single one of us

-- but there have been occasions when I have exchanged gifts with someone and they've gotten me something that was more than I expected -- something that was just so valuable -- so precious -- so thoughtful -- that my gift paled in comparison

-- and I was left speechless -- holding the unexpected and feeling so undeserving of what I had received -- knowing that my gift was nothing compared to what they had given me -- that, my friends, is grace -- and that is the true gift of Christmas – “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son…”

-- there is nothing we could do for God that could compare to the baby in the manger – there is no gift that we could give to God that would match the incomparable grace of Jesus – it is the gift of the unexpected to the undeserving – and it is more valuable than anything else in this world

-- as it says in Ephesians 2:8-9, "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith‑‑and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God‑‑ not by works, so that no one can boast."

 

-- so yes, Christmas does begin in a manger and end at the cross because Christmas is more than just a day we celebrate the birth of a child

-- Christmas is the day we celebrate just how much God loves us – and we celebrate the gift of love He gave for us -- for the child born in the manger at Christmas -- the holy and perfect child of Mary -- was God's gift to us -- God clothed in flesh -- Grace clothed in flesh -- Love clothed in flesh – sent to bring us home to Him again

 

B.  Romans 5:1-8

-- if you would, please turn over to Romans 5 – before we close this morning on this last Sunday before Christmas, I wanted us to look a little more closely at what the love of God at Christmas truly means for us

 

-- Romans 5:1-5

 

Romans 5:1 Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, 2 through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. 3 Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4 perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.

 

-- we’ve been talking about realizing the true meaning of Christmas – about how Christmas is about so much more than just a baby being born in the manger

-- Christmas is about God giving us the gift of His Son because of His great love for us -- even though we didn't expect it -- even though we were undeserving -- even though we were sinners -- separated from God by our own evil thoughts and desires and actions and held in bondage to sin and death -- God showed that He loved us so much that He gave His only Son for us, so that through Jesus’ death on the cross, we might be justified and redeemed for eternal life with Him

-- and as we receive this gift of grace by faith, we find peace in our lives for the very first time – peace with God and peace with men – as the angels sang to the shepherds on that first Christmas night, “Peace on earth and good will to those on whom His favor rests”

-- this peace comes through the outpouring of the Holy Spirit in the lives of believers – and it results in a new life for us – a life that produces perseverance – that produces character – and that generates hope – because we have come to understand that the gift of God is the hope of this world

 

-- verse 6-8

 

Romans 5:6 You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. 7 Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

 

            -- “at just the right time” – on a cold winter’s night that was so deep – the Lord of Creation came to us, wrapped in swaddling clothes and laying in a manger

            -- He came so that He might go to the cross for us – dying for us while we were still powerless – dying for us while we were still sinners and far from the Father – separated from God by our sin nature and our disobedience – He came at just the right time to save the world and to show the true extent of the Father’s love for us

            -- in other words, God didn’t wait for us to get right with Him before He sent Jesus to us at Christmas – He didn’t wait until we quit sinning and paid the price to reconcile ourselves – no, when we were powerless – when we couldn’t do a thing – when we were lost and alone with no hope of ever finding home again, God came to us as one of us – God came as a baby laying in a manger

 

-- Christmas demonstrates the Father's love for us just as the cross demonstrates Christ's love -- God had no assurance on that first Christmas day that we would love His Son, but He sent Him to earth anyway -- Jesus had no assurance when He went to the cross that we would love Him and receive His gift of eternal life, but He willingly went to the cross for us anyway -- He loved us even though He knew that we might never love Him or trust Him – God so loved the world that He sent His one and only Son to die for us, even though He knew that many might not come and would continue to reject the love that He had for them

           

-- one Sunday, a little boy looked up at his daddy and asked, "Daddy, how does God love us?" -- His father answered, "Son, God loves us with an unconditional love."

-- the boy thought for a moment and then asked, "Daddy, what kind of love is unconditional love?"

-- after a few minutes of silence his father answered -- "Do you remember the two boys who used to live next door to us and the cute little puppy they got last Christmas? -- "Yes" -- "Do you remember how they used to tease it, throw sticks and even rocks at it?" -- "Yes" -- "Do you also remember how the puppy would always greet them with a wagging tail and would try to lick their faces?" -- "Yes"

-- "Well, that puppy had an unconditional love for those two boys -- they certainly didn't deserve his love for them because they were mean to him -- but he loved them anyway"

-- the father then made his point -- "God's love for us is also unconditional -- men threw rocks at His Son, Jesus, and hit Him with sticks -- they even killed Him -- but, Jesus loved them anyway"

-- here in verse 6, we read that Christ died for the ungodly – and in verse 8, it says that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us – even though we didn’t deserve it – even though we didn’t return His love – He came at Christmas and died for us on the cross because of His great unconditional love for us

-- 1 John 3:16 says, "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us." -- the sinless dying for the sinner -- that is the definition of unconditional – undeserved -- love -- that is the meaning of Christmas

 

-- Max Lucado wrote this perspective on the incarnation of Christ:

-- "Can anything make me stop loving you?" God asks.  "Watch me speak your language, sleep on your earth, and feel your hurts -- Behold the maker of sight and sound as He sneezes, coughs, and blows His nose

-- “You wonder if I understand how you feel? -- Look into the dancing eyes of the kid in Nazareth; that's God walking to school -- Ponder the toddler at Mary's table; that's God spilling His milk.

-- "You wonder how long my love will last? -- Find your answer on a splintered cross, on a craggy hill.  -- That's me you see up there -- your maker -- your God -- nail-stabbed and bleeding -- Covered in spit and sin-soaked."

-- "That's your sin I'm feeling -- That's your death I'm dying -- That's your resurrection I'm living -- That's how much I love you." -- that's...Christmas

 

III.  Conclusion

-- so let me wrap this up by sharing with you a story from Candy Chand about the time her son Nicholas was in a kindergarten Christmas play -- for weeks, Nicholas had worked to memorize the songs that they would be singing – everyone was looking forward to the celebration and to the chance to sing before their parents – and finally, the big day arrived

-- Candy got there about 10 minutes early, found a spot in the cafeteria, and sat down -- the seats began to fill with other parents and with other children in the school

-- each class, accompanied by their teacher, sat cross-legged on the floor -- then, each group -- one by one -- rose to perform their song -- Candy said that since the school had quit referring to the holiday as "Christmas" but as "winter break," she didn't expect anything other than fun, commercial entertainment -- songs of reindeer, Santa Claus, snowflakes and good cheer


-- so, when her son's group rose to sing, "Christmas Love," she was surprised -- as the class sang the song, the kids in the front row -- center stage -- held up large letters, one by one, to spell out the title of the song

-- as the class would sing, "C is for Christmas", a child would hold up the letter "C" -- then, "H is for Happy" and on and on -- until each child holding up his portion had presented the complete message, "Christmas Love"

-- the performance went as smoothly as it could with a bunch of kindergartners, until the inevitable happened – one little girl made a mistake – when the verse centered on the letter “M,” shoe proudly held up her sign – upside-down – so, instead of there being an “M” in the word, there now was a “W”  

 -- the audience snickered at her mistake -- but she had no idea they were laughing at her, so she stood tall, proudly holding her "W"

-- the teachers tried to get the kids to quit laughing, but the laughter continued until the last letter was raised, and then they all saw it together -- a hush came over the audience and eyes began to widen -- in that instant they understood the reason they were there -- why they celebrated the holiday in the first place -- why even in the midst of the hustle and bustle of the season there was a purpose for Christmas festivities

-- for when the last letter was held high, the message read loud and clear:  "Christ Was Love" – and everyone realized that this was the truest message ever spoken

-- Christ was Love -- Christ is love – and Christ continues to love us no matter what we do

-- there is nothing that we can do that will make God love us more -- there is nothing that we can do that can make God love us less – we may be powerless – we may be ungodly – we may be sinners – we may be Christians trying to do our best and failing time and time again – but God still loves us completely -- perfectly -- unconditionally -- because He is love

-- rather than just telling us about His love in the Bible -- rather than just speaking His message through the prophets and evangelists and apostles -- God showed us His love by sending His own Son to earth to die in our place

 

-- as Max Lucado wrote in the book "In the Grip of Grace" -- "From the cradle in Bethlehem to the cross in Jerusalem we've pondered the love of our Father.  What can you say to that kind of emotion?  Upon learning that God would rather die than live without you, how do you react?  How can you begin to explain such passion?"

-- "There is no way our little minds can comprehend the love of God.  But that didn't keep Him from coming"

 

 -- Love came down at Christmas -- He came for you -- He came for me -- He came for all of us

-- God's love surrounds us and envelopes us -- He showed it through the birth of His Son at Christmas -- and He showed it again at the cross of Calvary

-- the question before us this morning, then, is what will you do in response? -- will you return His love with your own or will you just go about your life as before?

-- just like gifts cannot be appreciated until they are received, love cannot be realized until it is accepted -- will you accept the love of God this Christmas? -- will you accept the love of God today?

-- maybe you’re the person Paul described here in Romans 5 – a sinner far from God, without hope or power in this world today – or maybe you’re a new Christian – someone who has just started to experience the amazing grace that God has given us through His Son Jesus – or maybe you’ve been a Christian for a while, but you’ve felt your love grow cold and you feel more distant from Him today because this world has just taken it out of you

-- regardless of where you are this morning, I want you to leave here today on this last day of Advent knowing that God loves you – He loves you so much and all He wants is for you to love Him, too -- that is the meaning of Christmas – that is the reason for the manger – that is the reason for the cross -- and that is why we are here today

-- to receive His love and eternal life through the greatest gift ever given – the Lord Jesus Christ

-- so, as we close in prayer and as the last hymn is played, let me invite you to contemplate the depth of God’s love for us – and to respond to His love and to His word as you feel led

 

-- let us pray

 

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