Naylor Community Christian Church
Naylor, Georgia
I. Introduction
-- turn in Bibles to 1 Thessalonians
4:1-12
1
Thessalonians 4:1 As for other matters, brothers and sisters, we instructed you
how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you
and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. 2 For you know what
instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.
3
It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual
immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way
that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do
not know God; 6 and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage
of a brother or sister. The Lord will punish all those who commit such sins, as
we told you and warned you before. 7 For God did not call us to be impure, but
to live a holy life. 8 Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not
reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit.
9
Now about your love for one another we do not need to write to you, for you
yourselves have been taught by God to love each other. 10 And in fact, you do
love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia. Yet we urge you, brothers and
sisters, to do so more and more, 11 and to make it your ambition to lead a
quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as
we told you, 12 so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so
that you will not be dependent on anybody.
-- Friday night, I watched a movie
called, “The Ministry of Ungentlemanly Warfare” -- it was based on a true story
from World War II about a plan from Churchill to destroy the chain of supplies
to the German U-boats that were controlling the Atlantic Ocean
-- basically, Churchill recruited a
bunch of misfits and criminals to go to an island off the coast of Africa and
destroy the Italian boat the Germans used to replenish supplies on their
submarines -- the problem was that this was an unsanctioned mission -- the
British Government did not support it, nor did any of their European allies --
so the men and women on this mission were on their own
-- if the British military intercepted
them, they would be thrown into a British prison for crimes against the monarchy
-- if the Germans intercepted them, they would be thrown into a Nazi war camp
and interrogated through torture
-- so, they had to navigate the
mission on their own, through two opposing forces -- having to decide how they would
live and go forward and succeed on this mission
-- I can't imagine being in that position --
of having everyone against you -- of having to pretend that you’re working both
sides in a conflict -- two times in the movie, the team’s ship is stopped --
once by the Germans and once by the British Navy -- and both times they are
questioned about why they are where they are and what they are doing
-- and I know that the men on that ship
had to be thinking to themselves, “Who am I ultimately serving? Who is my
ultimate authority? Who am I living for? Who am I seeking to please?"
-- those are the very questions that we
have to ask ourselves daily -- who are we living for? -- what are we doing? --
and we have to make a choice -- are we living for God or are we living for ourselves?
-- do we understand our mission and who we are in this world today?
-- those are the questions that Paul
answers for us in this passage from 1 Thessalonians 4 -- so, let’s look at this
passage together and see what we can learn from his instructions to the
Thessalonians that will help us answer those questions in our lives today
II. Scripture Lesson (1 Thessalonians 4:1-12)
-- verse 1
1
Thessalonians 4:1 As for other matters, brothers and sisters, we instructed you
how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you
and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. 2 For you know what
instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.
-- leaders and teachers are familiar with
a principle called, “The Nehemiah Principle” -- it comes from the example of
Nehemiah from the eponymous book in the Old Testament -- Nehemiah was a servant
in Babylon -- God put a burden on his heart to return to Jerusalem and to
rebuild the temple and the wall around Jerusalem
-- but Nehemiah met resistance from
foreigners when he got there -- and, even though the people of Jerusalem
started well and were enthusiastic at the beginning, as time went on they lost
momentum and slowed down and a lot of them just quit
-- so, Nehemiah realized the problem was
that they had forgotten their purpose -- they had forgotten why they were
rebuilding the wall in the first place -- so, Nehemiah set up a gathering every
28 days where he would remind the people who they were and why they were
important and why rebuilding the wall was important to them as the people of
God
-- and by reminding them monthly of the
reason why they were there and why they were doing what they were doing, the
people remained encouraged and energetic and the wall was completed
-- it’s important that we know why we do
what we do -- that’s the whole basis of the book by Simon Sinek, “Start with
Why”
-- Sinek’s key idea and the main thesis in
his book is that “People don’t buy what you do, they buy why you do it.” -- it
reminds me of the quote from John Maxwell, “People don’t care how much you know
until they know how much you care”
-- it all comes down to the reason
for the things that you do
-- For
instance, the story is told about the time the noted English architect Sir
Christopher Wren was supervising the construction of a magnificent cathedral in
London -- a journalist thought it would be interesting to interview some of the
workers, so he chose three of them at random and asked them this question,
"What are you doing?"
-- The
first replied, "I’m cutting stone for 10 shillings a day." -- The
next answered, "I’m putting in 10 hours a day on this job." -- But
the third said, "I’m helping Sir Christopher Wren construct one of
-- when you know your “why,” it
informs your life and gives you encouragement to keep on with what you are
doing
-- the Nehemiah Principle reinforces
the “why” of our lives by reminding us on a regular basis of our why -- and
that is what Paul is doing here
-- in verses 1 and 2 of Chapter 4,
Paul tells the Thessalonians that they had instructed them on how they should
live in order to please God -- in other words, he had told them all this before
-- but now, he’s telling them again -- because Paul knew the Nehemiah Principle
and he knew the Thessalonians were like us -- we have a tendency to forgot
things over time -- especially our “why”
-- so, Paul repeats his instructions
to them to reinforce it and to reinspire the Thessalonians to keep on doing
what he had told them they should be doing -- living in order to please God and
doing it more and more -- the point is that all of us should be growing in our
walk with Christ -- moving forward every day -- and when we fall -- when we
fail and give in to our desires and disobey God and sin -- then we pick
ourselves up and start moving again
-- that is what Paul is doing here
in 1 Thessalonians 4:1-12 -- reminding the Thessalonians of what he had
instructed them before and how they should grow in their walk in Christ by
living to please God daily
-- first, by pleasing God in our personal
lives
-- second, by pleasing God in our church
lives -- in our relationship with other believers
-- and, third, by pleasing God in our
community lives -- in our relationship with those around us who are not
believers
-- that is what we are going to talk about
this morning
-- before we move on to those points, let
me call your attention to something important here in verse 1 -- in verse 1 we
read that Paul instructed the Thessalonians “how to live in order to please God”
-- interestingly, Paul uses the Greek word
dei in this phrase -- usually, when we translate that word from Greek to
English, we render it as “must” -- but not here in this verse -- for some
reason, most of our English translations water this down and they change this
from “must” -- from a command -- to a suggestion from Paul to the Thessalonians
-- so, we read in the NIV that Paul’s
intent here is to show the Thessalonians “how to live in order to please God”
-- in the ESV, it does a little better -- it reads, “this is how you ought
to walk and to please God”
-- but if we take the word dei
as usually translated, Paul’s instructions to the Thessalonians change from “this
is how to live in order to please God” to “this is how you must
live in order to please God”
-- in other words, if you want to
live a life pleasing to God -- if you want to grow in your walk with God --
then you must follow Paul’s instructions in these verses that were given to him
by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit
-- contrary to the way most of our Bibles
translate these verses, these instructions from Paul were given as commands,
not suggestions or recommendations -- and I think we need to be cautious to
read them and receive them in that way
-- that’s why Paul says here in
verse 2 that these instructions were given by the authority of the Lord Jesus
-- with that said, let’s look at
each of the three instructions that Paul gave the Thessalonians, and let us
consider how we might follow these commands in our lives today
-- first, how must we live to please
God in our personal lives
-- look back at verse 3
1
Thessalonians 4:3 It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you
should avoid sexual immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control your
own body in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust like the
pagans, who do not know God; 6a and that in this matter no one should wrong or
take advantage of a brother or sister.
-- one of the most life-changing
books I have ever read is Pat Morley’s book, “The Man in the Mirror” -- the
book revolves around the question, “Who is it that I see when I look in the
mirror? -- Am I the same person in private that I am in public?”
-- what he is talking about is our
integrity -- our authenticity -- our wholeness -- that is the same thing that
Paul is talking about here in these verses
-- whenever I used to disciple
people, in our very first meeting, we would ask the person if they were saved
-- if they had received Jesus as their Lord and Savior -- invariably, they
would always say yes -- and then we would ask them, what were they saved from?
-- and the answer was always the same -- saved from my sins -- but finally, we
would ask them, what were they saved for? -- and people stumbled with that
question
-- Paul gives us the answer here in
verse 3 -- Paul tells us that it is God’s will that we should be sanctified --
set apart from the world -- set apart from sin -- holy in all that we are and
all that we do
-- that means that we have been
saved from sin and saved for sanctification and
holiness
-- that means we have been saved to
be holy, inside and out -- at church -- at work -- and in private -- that means
that our walk with Christ is never separated into compartments, but we are the
same person at home as we are in church -- that means that the person who looks
back at us from the mirror in the private of our lives should be just as
sanctified and holy as they appear to be in public
-- and, as Paul points out here, the
gauge of our sanctification and holiness is most clearly expressed in how we
handle sex in our lives
-- if there is any one area in the
life of a Christian that the church has really mishandled, it is in the area of
sexual relations -- just as the Pharisees attempted to force holiness by adding
rule after rule to God’s commands, so the church has attempted to force
holiness in the area of sexual relations by condemning and repressing it --
giving Christians the impression that this is something that God looks down on
-- but that could not be farther
from the truth -- God created us male and female -- He gave us one another to
complete each other -- Adam was not complete without Eve -- and God gave us the
gift of sexual relations in marriage as a physical act whereby a husband and
wife become one in flesh and in spirit
-- sexual relations in marriage unites
a husband and wife as one and this holy, God-ordained union, points us to the
ultimate union we have in Christ when we are saved
-- that is why God forbids sexual
relations outside of the marriage bed -- because when someone has sex before
marriage or with people they are not married to -- they are sharing a part of
themselves that is reserved only for their spouse -- and that part can never be
taken back
-- sexual intimacy apart from marriage
is not a good idea -- it affects your body -- it affects your heart -- it
affects your spirit -- 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, “Every sin that a man does
is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own
body.”
-- God wants to protect us from
this -- He wants to protect our bodies -- He wants to protect our hearts -- He
wants to protect our spirits -- He wants to keep us from defiling ourselves -- so,
He commands us here in 1 Thessalonians 4:3 that we should be sanctified -- holy
and set apart and different from the world -- and that we should avoid sexual
immorality
-- the Bible is clear on how we do
that -- the start of 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, “Flee from sexual immorality” -- if
you want to defeat the temptation of sexual immorality in your life, the answer
is to run -- to do like Joseph did with Potiphar’s wife -- run when the
temptation of sexual immorality comes knocking
-- God knew how difficult the lure
of sexual relations would be for us, so He doesn’t tell us to stand up against
it and resist it -- He doesn’t tell us to ignore it and hope it will go away --
He says, “Flee sexual immorality -- when you are tempted in this area of your
life, run”
-- Paul goes on to tell us that we
should learn to control our own bodies in a way that is holy and honorable -- not
only in the area of sexuality, but in all the lusts -- in all the ways that
lust manifests in our lives
-- when we hear the word lust,
we always think of it in terms of sexuality, but lust manifests in greater ways
-- as we read in 1 John 2:18, “For
everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the
pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world.”
-- anytime we desire something in an
ungodly manner -- when that desire comes over us and take control of us -- when
passion for that item overcomes us -- that is a form of lust
-- and that can be sexual lust -- but it
can also be jealousy -- it can be coveting -- it can be desiring something that
someone else has or that someone else is -- it could be desiring something that
God has not granted us and reaching out and meeting that desire regardless of
what God thinks
-- and when we do that, we can wrong our
brothers and our sisters and take advantage of them as we take what we should
not
-- so, Paul tells us here to learn to
control our own bodies -- to not give into our lusts like those who do not know
God -- for we are not like the world -- we have the Holy Spirit within us who
empowers us and enables us to live holy and sanctified lives for God --
remember that one of the fruits of the Spirit is self-control -- and that is what
Paul is calling for us to do here if we want to live a life pleasing to God
-- look back at the second part of
verse 6
1
Thessalonians 6b The Lord will punish all those who commit such sins, as we
told you and warned you before. 7 For God did not call us to be impure, but to
live a holy life. 8 Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not
reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit.
-- there is always a consequence to
sin -- even though our sins were forgiven on the cross, when we sin against God
in this way, there is a penalty that must be paid -- and people who give into
sexual immorality or who give into other passionate lusts as Paul mentions in
this passage are going to suffer the consequences of the choices they have made
-- as we have discussed in Bible
study, one way God punishes us for our sin is by pouring out His wrath on us --
by taking His hand off us and allowing the consequences of our actions to fall
on us -- there is always a price to pay for the sins that we commit
-- but this is not how God intends
for His people to live -- He did not call us to be impure, but to live holy
lives in Him -- He had given us His Spirit to help us do that
-- so, focus on that instead of the
sin that calls out to us -- fix your eyes on Jesus -- keep your mind and your
heart and your eyes fixed on Him -- and you will not fall into sin and the
punishments and consequences that these sins carry with them
-- so, Paul cautions the
Thessalonians -- and us -- here, to not reject these commands and instructions,
because we are not rejecting man, but God Himself who gave us these commands
for our good
-- so, in order to live life in a
way that pleases God, the very first thing we must do is to make sure to please
Him in our personal lives -- to make sure that the person in the mirror is holy
and sanctified as God calls us to be
-- let’s move on and look at how we
can please God in our church lives -- in our communities of faith
-- verse 9
1
Thessalonians 4:9 Now about your love for one another we do not need to write
to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love each other. 10 And
in fact, you do love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia. Yet we urge you,
brothers and sisters, to do so more and more
-- in telling the Thessalonians how
to please God in their church lives, Paul says that he doesn’t have to say
anything about brotherly love to them -- they understand that -- they are doing
that
-- when we think of brotherly love -- phileo
love -- we think of family -- and for Christians, church has become our family
-- an eternal, spiritual family that supersedes any bonds of blood or familial
relations
-- when we are born again -- when we
receive Jesus as our Lord and Savior and are washed in His blood and are
forgiven of our sins and reconciled with the Father -- we are born again as the
children of God -- in John 1:12, it says, “to all who received Him, to those
who believed in His name, He gave the right to become the children of God --
children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision, or a husband’s
will, but born of God”
-- look around you right now -- this is
your family -- we are your brothers and sisters in Christ -- and this relationship
will continue throughout eternity
-- because of this, we are one with Christ
and one with each other -- one family united in Christ and united in His love
-- the Thessalonians understood that --
they loved each other -- they cared for each other -- these new family bonds
were as important to them as the bonds of their original families -- more so,
even, in some cases, especially because a lot of blood families rejected their family
members when they converted to Christianity
-- and the Thessalonians understood
that this family was not limited by the walls of the place where they gathered
for worship, but it extended outward to all Christians -- to the universal
church -- to the entire body of Christ, wherever it may be found
-- we see that when Paul talks about
the Thessalonians loving all the brothers throughout Macedonia -- their family
included all Christians in Macedonia and even beyond -- this is why the
churches in Asia Minor responded to Paul’s call for donations to help
Christians living in Jerusalem -- it wasn’t out of a sense of duty -- it wasn’t
in order to win brownie points with God
-- it was because someone in their
family was in need, and their hearts went out to them in love and care and
their money went to them as a tangible example of their love
-- and I’m going to say something
here that’s going to ruffle some feathers, but it needs to be said --
immigration was a hot topic in this recent election -- I don’t think it’s too
much to say that Trump’s victory, in large part, was because of his stance on
immigration
-- and I agree that illegal
immigration is a problem in this country -- we have a path for people to come
into this country legally -- and I think we should support people who are doing
so because our country is a country that was founded and depends on immigrants
-- whether they are coming from Europe or Ireland or Asia or Mexico
-- because the thing is they are
coming here searching for the American Dream that we have promised to the entire
world -- they have seen the Statue of Liberty and heard the words of the call
at the bottom of the statue:
“Give me your tired, your poor, Your
huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming
shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me, I lift my lamp beside
the golden door!”
-- they are coming for freedom and
for salvation from the conditions they have been living in -- we have invited
them in and we should not discourage them from coming in accordance with our
laws and regulations
-- but here’s the deal -- whether
these people come in legally or illegally, if they are Christians, they are our
brothers and sisters -- they are family -- and we are called to love them just
as we love our blood relations
-- we need to remember that when we
talk about immigrants and about people in other countries -- we need to
remember that these aren’t just a group of people, but these are individuals --
husbands and wives -- mothers and fathers -- sons and daughters -- family
members to you and to me -- people that God has called us to love and to care
for, just as Paul is commending the Thessalonians here for loving their brothers
and sisters in their local church and throughout all of Macedonia
-- and, although he says that he
doesn’t need to instruct them about brotherly love, he does remind them that
they have been taught by God to love each other -- the love he is referring to
here is not brotherly love, but agape love -- unconditional love -- the
love that goes beyond and that reaches out regardless of who someone is or
where someone is
-- Paul says that our agape
love for our brothers and sisters in Christ should be increasing and abounding
more and more every day
-- that is how we please God in our
lives in a church community -- by remembering our family and loving those in
that family however we can, more and more every day
-- so, first, we live to please God
in our personal lives -- second, we live to please God in our church lives --
and finally, we live to please God in our community lives
-- verse 11
1
Thessalonians 4:11 and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You
should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, 12
so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will
not be dependent on anybody.
-- there is an old cliché that says that
we may be the only Bible that others will read -- and that is what Paul is
trying to point out here to the Thessalonians
-- he is telling them that they must
live exemplary lives in the community -- to lead quiet lives -- to not lead
lives of rebellion -- to not be known as people who are out-spoken or who fight
for our own ways -- but who lead quiet lives and mind our own business and do
our jobs to the best of our ability, no matter what our jobs are
-- that we live out our faith with
our hands and in our communities and in our speech and bearing in public so
that others might see us and be drawn to Christ because of our example
-- Paul’s instructions here reminds
me of Martin Luther King, Jr’s, quote:
“If a man is called to be a street
sweeper, he should sweep streets even as Michelangelo painted or Beethoven
composed music or Shakespeare wrote poetry. He should sweep streets so well
that all the hosts of heaven and earth will pause to say, 'Here lived a great
street sweeper who did his job well.”
-- that is what Paul is saying -- if
we want to live a life that is pleasing to God in our communities, then we have
to live quiet lives, productive lives, meaningful lives -- lives that attract
the attention of others and draw them to Christ simply because of how we live
-- not giving in to panic -- not giving
in to worry and anxiety -- not giving in to outrage and fear and rebellion --
but lives truly and fully lived for the Lord -- content in His presence and
pouring out agape love to all around us
-- living life this way wins the
respect of outsiders and makes them see Christians in a good light
-- the Apostle Peter said something
similar in 1 Peter 2:12, “Live such good lives among the pagans that, though
they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on
the day he visits us.”
III. Closing
-- let’s wrap this up
-- there is a scientific principle
that there are only two states in life -- either something is growing or it is
decaying -- either it is alive or it is dying
-- and that is also true in the spiritual
plane, as well
-- if you are not growing in the Lord --
if you are not growing in your walk with Christ -- then you are decaying -- you
are stagnating -- you are going backwards
-- we must be moving forward -- we must be
growing and moving in Christ if we are to be successful in our Christian lives
-- and we grow in our walk with Christ by living to please God daily
-- first, by pleasing God in our personal
lives -- by living sanctified and holy lives -- by avoiding sexual immorality
and the passionate lusts of the world
-- second, by pleasing God in our church
lives -- in our relationship with other believers -- by loving our Christian
family with both brotherly love and agape love
-- and, third, by pleasing God in our
community lives -- in our relationship with those around us who are not
believers -- by living quiet and mindful lives that serve as examples of Christ’s
love and presence to those around us
-- this is what God wants -- this is what
God commands -- this is how we should be living life every single day
--
let us pray
[Note:
Sermon outline based on blog post from Dave Black]