Naylor Community Christian Church
Naylor, Georgia
I. Introduction
-- turn in Bibles to 2 Timothy 1:1-5
2
Timothy 1:1 Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, in keeping
with the promise of life that is in Christ Jesus,
2 To
Timothy, my dear son: Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and Christ
Jesus our Lord.
3 I
thank God, whom I serve, as my ancestors did, with a clear conscience, as night
and day I constantly remember you in my prayers. 4 Recalling your tears, I long
to see you, so that I may be filled with joy. 5 I am reminded of your sincere
faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice
and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.
-- on Wednesday of this past week, I
had a little time to get some things done – we had cancelled Bible study
because Kim was having chemo and wouldn’t be home until late – so, I took
advantage of the moment to try to catch up on some yard work that I had
neglected
-- when we moved into the trailer
following the hurricane, we had nothing but bare ground around our home –
before, our house had been completely surrounded by trees – and our yard was
covered mostly in leaves – but now, with no trees and direct sunlight, we knew
we had to do something to put groundcover in place around our home
-- neither of us really wanted
grass, so we had this plan to establish a landscape of native vegetation, with
lots of native wildflowers – but that’s easier said than done – we scarified
the ground – we put out seed – we covered it and watered and fertilized it –
but nothing came up
-- and then when the rains started,
the bare ground began eroding – so, I knew something had to be done – I went
out and got a grass seed mixture and put it out – I thought it would be a
temporary measure until we could get the native vegetation going – but the
grass spread out and covered the front of the house – and now I find myself
having to mow my yard for the first time in 28 years
-- well, I was out there Wednesday
doing just that, when I noticed something – a little stem with bright red
flowers was poking its head up above the grass – if you look at the picture on
our Facebook page announcing today’s message, you can see the picture of it
-- I mowed around the flower – there
was no way I was going to mow it down – but it got me thinking – about life and
about faith and about a life well lived
-- in the middle of a sea of grass,
this one lone red flower stood up and proudly bloomed where it was planted – it
was doing what it was called to do – it was becoming what it was created to be
-- it didn’t matter what was going
on around it – it didn’t matter that it was the only red flower blooming in our
yard – it was created by God and planted in this location and it had a job to
do – and there it stood – faithfully blooming beautifully, as it was intended
to do
-- our chaplain at work this week
sent out a message that spoke to this – in it he wrote, and I’m quoting here:
Maybe the most important thing is this:
to continue doing what is right,
to faithfully live out our calling,
and to keep becoming the person we are meant to be
even when nobody notices.
Not every faithful life receives applause.
Not every sacrifice receives recognition.
But that does not make those things less valuable.
--
just like that little red flower blooming quietly in my yard, there is beauty
in simply living faithfully where you are and doing what you were called to do
and being who you were called to be – whether anyone sees it or not
--
history is filled with individuals who did just that – unnamed and unremembered
people who lived faithful and beautiful lives for Christ without anyone
noticing – without anyone giving them laud or decoration
--
people whose lives touched others in a myriad of ways – sometimes changing the
direction of a life by simply being who they were and who God made them to be
--
this morning – on this Mother’s Day – I want us to consider two women who did
just that – two women who quietly bloomed where they lived and who faithfully
shared their lives and their beliefs with others
--
in this case, we do know their names – Lois and Eunice – but 2 Timothy 1:5 is
the only place in the entire Bible where they are mentioned by name – there are
a couple of other passages that allude to them, but not by name and not in any
great detail
--
other than these two instances and this verse here in 2 Timothy, we know
nothing about them – about who they were – how they lived – what they did –
whether Eunice was a single mother or remained married during Timothy’s life
--
we don’t know if Lois lived with her or, if she did, why she did so – we don’t
know anything about them – other than they were instrumental in bringing
Timothy to faith and that their faithfulness rippled throughout history to this
very moment
--
so, with that, let’s take a few moments to consider the lives of the unsung
heroes of the faith – men and women like Lois and Eunice – and how we can live
lives of meaning and purpose like them just by blooming quietly and faithfully
where we are planted
II. Lois and Eunice
-- to begin the story of Lois and
Eunice, we have to start at the beginning – at the moment when Paul first came
into their acquaintance and the acquaintance of Timothy, who would become his
dearly beloved son in the faith
-- in Acts 16:1-3, we read about
this initial meeting with Paul
Acts
16:1 Paul came to Derbe and then to Lystra, where a disciple named Timothy
lived, whose mother was Jewish and a believer but whose father was a Greek. 2
The believers at Lystra and Iconium spoke well of him. 3 Paul wanted to take
him along on the journey, so he circumcised him because of the Jews who lived
in that area, for they all knew that his father was a Greek.
-- so, during his second missionary
journey, Paul came to the region of Lystra – an ancient Roman colony located
about 25 miles south-southwest of Iconium – it is in modern-day Turkey
-- it was along an established Roman
road that ran from Ephesus through towns such as Sardis, Pisidian Antioch, Iconium
to its terminus in Syrian Antioch – right in the middle, lay the little town of
Lystra – so, this was a road that Paul followed during his ministry journeys
–
at every town along the way, he would stop and try to find believers and preach
the gospel to them or leave them with an encouraging word in an attempt to
strengthen the churches there in this pagan land
-- on this second missionary
journey, Paul came into Lystra and was introduced to Timothy – a Christian who
was highly spoken of by the believers both in Lystra and Iconium
-- we learn that Timothy was of
mixed heritage – his mother was Jewish, but his father was Greek – which
explains why Timothy had not been circumcised as a child, because this was a
Jewish tradition that would have been carried out by the father – since Paul
was so impressed by Timothy that he wanted to take him on his journeys, he had
Timothy circumcised, so this would not be a stumbling block to any Jews or
Jewish believers they met
-- so, from this passage in Acts 16,
we learn that Timothy’s mother was a Jew – she would have been raised in the
Jewish faith – but was probably not a devout follower of Judaism, since she
ended up marrying outside the faith and did not press her husband to have
Timothy circumcised on the eighth day, as Jewish law required
-- at some point – probably through
the teaching and evangelism of Paul – Timothy’s mother became a Christian – and
apparently a very devout and faithful Christian -- she joined with the
believers in Lystra to form the church there, and it was during Paul’s visit
with that church that he first met her and Timothy, who would go on with him on
the rest of his missionary journey
-- look back over at 2 Timothy 1
2
Timothy 1:1 Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, in keeping
with the promise of life that is in Christ Jesus,
2 To
Timothy, my dear son: Grace, mercy and peace from God the Father and Christ
Jesus our Lord.
3 I
thank God, whom I serve, as my ancestors did, with a clear conscience, as night
and day I constantly remember you in my prayers. 4 Recalling your tears, I long
to see you, so that I may be filled with joy. 5 I am reminded of your sincere
faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice
and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.
-- Timothy made an impression on
Paul, from the very first moment – not only was Timothy’s faith and belief in
Jesus so strong that Paul wanted him to join in the ministry, but Timothy
became like a son to him during that trip
-- we see that in both of these
epistles to Timothy, which are the most personal letters that Paul wrote – in 1
Timothy, he calls Timothy his true son in the faith – and here in 2 Timothy 1:2,
he says that Timothy is his “dear son” or “beloved son”
-- he talks about how often he
remembers Timothy in his prayers and how he gives thanks for him and how he
longs to see him, so that he might be filled with joy
-- in a very real sense, Timothy was
a son to Paul – who, as best we can tell, never married or had children of his
own
-- but Paul’s relationship with
Timothy was more than just a father to a son – there was a spiritual kindred
there – a shared sense of faith and ministry and calling
-- in verse 5, Paul says that he is
reminded of Timothy’s sincere faith – his real faith – faith that was honest
and genuine – not manufactured – not practiced only on Sundays – but a faith
that defined him as a person
-- this faith, Paul says, first
lived in his grandmother Lois and in his mother Eunice – and now had been
brought to life in him
-- Paul is saying a lot with that
statement – and this goes back to my thoughts on quietly blooming where you are
planted – on being faithful to who you are and what God has called you to, no
matter how big or small that calling might be regarded by others
-- Timothy apparently began life in
a home that did not value religion to any great extent – with a Greek father
and Jewish mother, he probably was not raised in the Jewish faith and probably
didn’t go to synagogue to be taught the scriptures or the traditions of his
Jewish heritage
-- I think it would be safe to say
that Timothy’s family was probably like a lot of our families – they were
nominal religious people, at best – and we understand that – for a lot of us,
religion was nothing more than going to church at Christmas and Easter – maybe
a Vacation Bible School, here or there – maybe attending a few Sundays during
the year -- but nothing more
-- if asked, we would say we were
Christians because we were part of a church – but, in reality, true faith was
not there – as Paul told Timothy in 2 Timothy 3:5, a lot of us had a form of
godliness, but we denied its power – in other words, we appeared to be
Christians, but only nominally – not really accepting or living out the calling
of Christ in our lives
-- this is how I believe Lois and
Eunice lived – this was their how their household functioned – and when Timothy
came along, not much changed, as evidenced by their failure to have Timothy
circumcised
--
but at some point, something changed for Lois and Eunice – we don’t know for
sure what happened, but we see Lois and Eunice mentioned as being women of
faith – women known as part of the church – an integral part of the body of
believers in the Lystra community
-- and where she had failed to pass
on her Jewish heritage to Timothy at the beginning, Eunice and her mother Lois
exceeded expectations and impressed on Timothy the truth of the gospel of
Christ – teaching him from the scriptures from the time he was a little boy –
as Paul says here in verse 5, this sincere and genuine faith in Christ that he
sees in Timothy first lived in Lois and Eunice – and they were the ones who
passed it on to him
-- turn over to Chapter 3:14-15
2 Timothy
3:14 But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become
convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, 15 and how from
infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for
salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.
-- as Paul begins to conclude this
letter to Timothy, he urges him to continue in what he had learned and become
convinced of – in other words, the truths of the gospel that Timothy had
accepted and put his sincere faith in – living, not as a nominal Christian, but
as a Christian who lived out his faith daily
-- Paul says, continue in your
faith, because you know those from whom you learned it – and how from infancy you
have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation
through faith in Christ Jesus
-- when Lois and Eunice became
believers, their lives changed – they accepted the religion and faith of Christ
wholeheartedly – and they were intentional in passing their faith on to Timothy
– teaching him from the scriptures themselves – telling him about Jesus – and
sharing the traditions of their faith
-- Paul certainly had a hand in
helping Timothy grow in the faith, but he simply built on the foundation of
faith that Lois and Eunice had poured into Timothy as a child
-- it was their faith – blooming
quietly there in Lystra and demonstrated through their lives in that community
– that turned Timothy into the man of faith that Paul celebrates in these two
epistles
-- Lois and Eunice show how little
red flowers blooming quietly all by themselves can change the world simply by
being faithful to their calling
III. Closing
-- I want to close by sharing with you
the story of how living like Lois and Eunice can impact people even today
-- several years ago, there was a young
grade school teacher named Mrs. Thompson – Mrs. Thompson taught in the fifth
grade in a small school in Iowa – and even though she tried to be a good
teacher and show love to all her students the same, there was one student she
just didn’t like – a little boy named Teddy Stoddard
-- Teddy was one of those boys who
was on the outside of social settings – he didn’t play well with the other
children – he was frequently alone on the playground – his clothes were messy –
and he constantly needed a bath – on top of all of that, he was unpleasant – in
speech and in his attitude towards Mrs. Thompson and his classmates
-- and so, Mrs. Thompon just didn’t
like him – in fact, even though it felt wrong, she found delight in marking his
papers with a broad red pen – making bold Xs and then putting a big “F” on the
top of most of his papers – she thought he deserved it for the way he lived and
the way he treated everyone around him
-- At the school where Mrs. Thompson
taught, the teachers were required to review each child’s past records, and she
put Teddy’s off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for
a surprise.
-- Teddy’s first grade teacher
wrote, “Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and
has good manners… he is a joy to be around..”
-- His second-grade teacher wrote,
“Teddy is an excellent student, well-liked by his classmates, but he is
troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a
struggle.”
-- Mrs. Thompson was confused – this
didn’t sound like the Teddy she knew at all – she turned to his third grade
report
--
His third grade teacher wrote, “His mother’s death has been hard on him. He
tries to do his best, but his father doesn’t show much interest and his home
life will soon affect him if some steps aren’t taken.”
-- Teddy’s fourth grade teacher
wrote, “Teddy is withdrawn and doesn’t show much interest in school. He doesn’t
have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class.”
-- By now, Mrs. Thompson realized
the problem and she was ashamed of herself.
--
On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic -- Instead,
she began to teach children.
--
Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy -- As she worked with him, his
mind seemed to come alive -- The more she encouraged him, the faster he
responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest
children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children
the same, Teddy became one of her “teacher’s pets..”
-- at the end of the year, she found
a note under her door from Teddy, telling her that she was the best teacher he
ever had in his whole life
--
Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he
had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best
teacher he ever had in life.
--
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had
been tough at times, he’d stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon
graduate from college with the highest of honors -- He assured Mrs. Thompson
that she was still the best and favorite teacher he had ever had in his whole
life.
--
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained
that after he got his bachelor’s degree, he decided to go a little further. The
letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had.
But now his name was a little longer…. The letter was signed, Theodore F.
Stoddard, MD.
--
The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another letter that
spring. Teddy said he had met this girl and was going to be married. He
explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering
if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the wedding in the place that was
usually reserved for the mother of the groom. -- Of course, Mrs. Thompson did.
--
after the ceremony, Teddy hugged Mrs. Thompson and whispered in her ear, “Thank
you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel
important and showing me that I could make a difference.”
-- Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her
eyes, whispered back. She said, “Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one
who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn’t know how to teach until
I met you.”1
-- Mrs. Thompson had a profound
impact on Dr. Stoddard because she began to pour out her love into his life –
Lois and Eunice did the same with Timothy – and all of us can do the same with
those that God places into our paths
-- all of us can bloom faithfully
where we are as we share God’s love and His message of hope with those around
us – all of us have the ability to change another person’s life by sharing with
them the faith and love we have
-- I want to leave you with an
excerpt from a poem by Mary Rita Schilke Korzan that speaks to the power a
person can have on the life of another – especially the power that a mother or
grandmother can have on their children
-- it's called, "When You
Thought I Wasn't Looking"
-- “When you thought I wasn't
looking, you hung my first painting on the refrigerator and I wanted to paint
another one.
-- When you thought I wasn't
looking, you fed a stray cat, And I thought it was good to be kind to animals.
-- When you thought I wasn't
looking, you baked a birthday cake just for me, And I knew that little things
were special things.
-- When you thought I wasn't
looking, you said a prayer, And I believed there is a God I could always talk
to.
-- When you thought I wasn't
looking, you kissed me good-night And I felt loved.
-- When you thought I wasn't
looking, I saw tears come from your eyes, And I learned that sometimes things
hurt-- But it's all right to cry.
When you thought I wasn't looking, you
smiled And it made me want to look that pretty too.
-- When you thought I wasn't
looking, you cared, And I wanted to be everything I could be.
-- When you thought I wasn't
looking, I looked... And I wanted to say “thanks" for all those things you
did When you thought I wasn't looking.”
-- let me ask you this -- who is
looking at you today? – who’s life are you influencing just by being you? – Lois
and Eunice changed Timothy’s life forever even through their love and faith --
and you are changing someone else's life even though you might not know they
are looking
-- as we close now, let me remind you
of the power you have to change lives for better or worse -- and let me
encourage you to always consider what your actions and your words can do to
those around you
-- may God bless you today and keep you
in His grace as you seek to live out His example for others
-- let us pray
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