Sunday, January 28, 2024

SERMON: LOSING JESUS

 


Naylor Community Christian Church

 

I.  Introduction

            -- turn in Bibles to Luke 2:41-52

 

Luke 2:41 Every year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the Festival of the Passover. 42 When he was twelve years old, they went up to the festival, according to the custom. 43 After the festival was over, while his parents were returning home, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but they were unaware of it. 44 Thinking he was in their company, they traveled on for a day. Then they began looking for him among their relatives and friends. 45 When they did not find him, they went back to Jerusalem to look for him. 46 After three days they found him in the temple courts, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. 47 Everyone who heard him was amazed at his understanding and his answers. 48 When his parents saw him, they were astonished. His mother said to him, “Son, why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously searching for you.”

 

49 “Why were you searching for me?” he asked. “Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house?” 50 But they did not understand what he was saying to them.

 

51 Then he went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But his mother treasured all these things in her heart. 52 And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.

 

-- I read about this single mother who had two young sons -- she was having a difficult time with them, and they were getting into all kinds of trouble -- one day, after they had been caught taking something that didn't belong to them, the mother went to talk to her pastor -- "Leave it to me," he said. "I'll make sure and put the fear of God in them and make sure they know that they need Jesus in their lives"

-- so, on Sunday morning, the preacher started in on one of those hellfire and brimstone sermons -- at one point, he turned and pointed his finger right at the oldest boy and shouted, "Do you know where Jesus is?  Do you know where Jesus is?"  -- the oldest boy jumped up from the pew and took off running for the back of the church with his little brother hot on his heels

-- when they made it outside the church, the older brother turned to his little brother and said, "We're in trouble now."  His brother said, "What do you mean?" -- the older brother said, "Jesus is missing and they think we did it."

 

      -- this morning, we are looking at the passage from Luke where Jesus really does go missing -- it’s a familiar passage -- it’s a passage we’ve looked at before, but as we know from Hebrews 4:12, “the Word of God is alive and active -- Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow -- it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart” -- that means that God can and will speak to us in passages that we’ve studied before or heard taught before -- such as the passage before us today

      -- in case you haven’t realized it yet, since Advent, we have been progressing through the life of Christ in our messages for the last several weeks -- we began in Advent by looking at the miracle of the incarnation -- at how God prepared the world to receive His Son by first gracing Zechariah and Elizabeth with a child, who would grow up to be John the Baptist and who was sent to prepare the way for the Lord

      -- we then looked at the announcement to Mary and Joseph that they, too, would have a child -- only their child would come through the power and presence of the Holy Spirit and He would be the Son of God -- and then we moved through Christmas and the birth of Jesus to the Epiphany -- the revealing of Jesus as the King of the Jews to the world through the visit of the Magi -- and then on to the story last week of Simeon and Anna’s prophecy about Jesus when He was presented in the temple at 41 days of age

      -- the story this morning is the next chapter in Jesus’ life -- it occurs twelve years after Simeon and Anna prophesied about Him and proclaimed Him the long-awaited Messiah

      -- my plan is to continue following the life and ministry of Jesus through Ash Wednesday and the Season of Lent, right up to Easter, when we celebrate the victory of Christ over sin and death through His resurrection

 

      -- with everything going on in the world today -- with wars and rumors of war in the news -- with plagues and pestilence and disease affecting people worldwide -- with natural disasters from earthquakes to tsunamis to excessive heat and cold affecting us -- to the political, social, and cultural conflicts in our country and beyond -- I thought it was a good idea to take our eyes off the world -- to silence the voices of discontent and discord -- and put our attention back on the One we should be paying attention to and focusing on in our lives here on earth

      -- so, as we look at the life and ministry of Christ over the next few months, we will definitely be looking at passages that we are familiar with -- passages that we have heard before

      -- but I want us to approach them with open eyes and open hearts and open minds -- without thinking that we have already heard this and know everything about these stories and messages from the Bible -- so that we can see these passages in light of what God is doing in our lives and in this world today -- and hear His message for us today -- so that we can grow closer to God as we begin to give Jesus all our attention and focus again and begin to love Him again with all our hearts, minds, soul, and strength

      -- so, with that long introduction, let’s begin our study for this morning

 

II.  Scripture Lesson (Luke 2:41-52)

            -- if you would, look back with me at verse 41-44

 

Luke 2:41 Every year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the Festival of the Passover. 42 When he was twelve years old, they went up to the festival, according to the custom. 43 After the festival was over, while his parents were returning home, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but they were unaware of it. 44 Thinking he was in their company, they traveled on for a day. Then they began looking for him among their relatives and friends.

 

            -- so, as we come to the end of Chapter 2, Luke closes his account of the early years of Jesus’ life -- we don’t know a lot about the early life of Jesus -- we have records of His birth in Bethlehem and the Magi coming to visit -- we know that He was taken to Egypt by Mary and Joseph to protect Him from the wrath of Herod -- and we know that He came back to live in Nazareth with His parents

            -- but we hear nothing more about Jesus’ childhood until Luke gives us this story of Jesus’ visit to Jerusalem for the Feast of the Passover when He was twelve years old -- as far as we know, this is the first time that Jesus has gone up to Jerusalem with His parents to celebrate this feast and to worship with them and the other believers in the temple

 

            -- after reading this passage one morning, a Sunday school teacher asked her class why they thought Joseph and Mary took Jesus with them to Jerusalem at this time -- one little kid had a great answer -- "They probably couldn't get a baby sitter."

 

            -- now that’s not the real reason, but it’s funny, none-the-less -- Jesus, at twelve years of age, was on the precipice of becoming an adult according to Jewish customs -- when a child turned 13 years of age, they were considered adults and were now responsible for their own actions -- before, they had been under the protection and education of their parents -- but now, they were to move on into adulthood by taking responsibility for their religious, social, and cultural lives

-- Jewish communities today still recognize this transition into adulthood -- that’s what a Bar Mitzva or Bat Mitzva celebrates -- when a Jewish boy or girl turns 13, this ceremony signifies the leaving behind of their childhood and childish ways and the start of their adult life and all the responsibilities therein

 

-- so, that’s where we find Jesus -- up to this point, Jesus would have been under the guardianship and tutelage of His parents -- He would have received the normal education that all Jewish boys received -- every Jewish boy was taught the Torah -- the Jewish scriptures -- in their synagogues and by their father until they were around twelve or thirteen years old -- they were given a basic education in Jewish life, especially in the religious traditions and practices of God’s chosen people

-- after they turned 13, those who were most promising and who had the means to do so would seek additional training under a Rabbi, who would carry them deeper into the teachings of God -- they would go live with the Rabbi and be trained to be a Rabbi or scholar or scribe -- you can think of it as starting higher education with a focus on religious training

            -- the rest of the Jewish children would begin vocational training -- apprenticing with either their father or another craftsman to learn a trade that they would carry on in their adult life

            -- so now at the age of twelve, we see Jesus coming up from Nazareth with His parents to Jerusalem to celebrate the Feast as an adult for the first time, according to the custom of the Jews

 

            -- and I want to pause here for just a second to make a statement -- it’s common for us to see people post on social media or ask friends for church recommendations -- and, invariably, they will always make the statement, “We’re looking for a church with children’s programs” -- and the implication here is that if a church doesn’t have a program for children, then they’re not going to attend

            -- we’ve all been in churches that had programs like that -- usually, the kids sit in the church until after the singing is over -- and then there might be a children’s sermon taught up front at the altar -- but at some point, the children will be taken out of the church and into the back for the children’s program -- some churches have similar programs for kids during the week where they are separated from the adults

            -- but I want you to know that this is not a biblical practice -- not as part of the church or the Jewish religious communities -- and I have to question whether this is a good thing

            -- statistics show that there is a vast falling away of young people from the faith after they leave home -- there are certainly many reasons for this, but one reason has to be that they were not taught how to worship God as adults -- they were not given the foundations of the faith and were not taught by the example of their parents -- they were separated from the main life of the church -- ushered into the back and into separate programs just for them -- and, as a result, when they become adults and leave home for the first time, they do not have the foundation or the established practice of worship in their lives -- and it's easy for them to fall away

 

            -- I know that this is not an issue for us here today -- we don’t have any kids in our church -- but we will -- and when they come -- when we start to get kids coming to the church -- we need to keep this in mind and we need to consider whether setting up alternative children’s programs is the best thing or not, because it doesn’t appear to be preparing our children and young people for a life with Christ as adults

            -- I want to encourage you to take some time and think about this and consider it and explain this to people when they ask if we have children’s programs -- in my mind, it may be best to not have alternative children’s programs, but to follow the example we see here in the Scripture -- where young children are taught by their parents and other people in their community and are involved in worship as a family and not shunted off into the back, so that they can learn how to worship and live for Christ through the example of the adults around them

            -- that’s what happened in the life of Jesus -- and that’s what happened to all young boys in Jesus’ day -- they would be trained in the Scriptures until they reached the age of 12 or 13, at which point they were expected to take up the responsibility for their own spiritual lives and begin participating in the faith community as adults -- just as we see Jesus doing here in this passage

           

            -- let’s move on

-- after the Passover had ended, Mary and Joseph headed back home with their caravan of friends and family -- even though the Romans controlled the province of Israel, it was probably safer to travel in a group -- and so family and friends would travel together to and from Jerusalem, especially for the major feasts

            -- but something interesting happened as they headed home -- they lost Jesus

            -- after about a day of traveling, they realized that they didn’t know where Jesus was -- in the hustle and bustle of getting everything loaded up and hitting the road, they just forgot Him -- they just assumed that He was walking with somebody else in their caravan and would show up at some point -- but He didn’t and so they started looking for Him among their relatives and their friends

 

            -- Greg Laurie points out something important about this passage -- he wrote that Mary and Joseph hadn’t “lost their love for [Jesus] or their faith -- they just lost Him”

            -- now understand this: Mary and Joseph loved Jesus -- they believed in Him -- they knew the circumstances of His conception and birth like no one else -- more so than anyone else on earth, they knew Jesus was the promised Messiah -- that had been confirmed to them by Gabriel at the time of Jesus’ conception -- by the angels in the field the night of His birth -- by the shepherds who visited them in the stable -- and by Simeon and Anna when Jesus was presented in the temple at 41 days of age

            -- out of all the people in the world that you would have expected to not lose Jesus, it would have been them -- but, yet, they still lost Him -- and we can, too

 

            -- I have no doubt that everybody here loves Jesus just as Mary and Joseph did -- but I can tell you, from my own personal experience, it is all too easy to lose Jesus in our lives, especially when things get busy -- especially when we’re occupied with doing life -- with just getting by -- with doing all that we have to do

            -- think about Jesus’ parable of the sower who goes out and scatters the seed -- Jesus said some of that seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants -- He told His disciples that these are the people who hear His word -- who receive His word -- who love Him -- but who lose Him because of the worries of life and chasing after wealth

            -- the thing to know is that this parable was given to the disciples -- the message was for them -- not for the lost -- and what He’s saying there is that we can lose Him, if we’re not careful -- we can be in a relationship with Him -- we can love Him -- we can know that our sins are forgiven -- but we can let the thorns and weeds of life choke us out and  we can end up leaving Jesus behind, just like Mary and Joseph did

            -- they were busy -- they were packing up -- they were worried about getting back and Joseph was probably thinking about all the carpentry jobs he had ahead of him and how he was getting behind in his job and he was worried and anxious -- and they lost Jesus -- they just left Him behind

 

            -- so, let’s say we realize that we have done the same -- we’ve lost Jesus -- we’ve forgotten Him somewhere along the way, just like Joseph and Mary -- how do you find what is lost?

 

            -- look at verse 45-52

 

Luke 2:45 When they did not find him, they went back to Jerusalem to look for him. 46 After three days they found him in the temple courts, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. 47 Everyone who heard him was amazed at his understanding and his answers. 48 When his parents saw him, they were astonished. His mother said to him, “Son, why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously searching for you.”

 

49 “Why were you searching for me?” he asked. “Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house?” 50 But they did not understand what he was saying to them.

 

51 Then he went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But his mother treasured all these things in her heart. 52 And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.

 

 

            -- what do you do when you lose something?

            -- you do what Mary and Joseph did -- you go back to where you were -- you go back to the last place you remember seeing the thing you lost

-- when they realized they had left Jesus, Mary and Joseph immediately headed back to Jerusalem, the last place they had seen Him, and started looking for Him everywhere -- they probably went back to the place where they had stayed -- they checked with friends and family -- searched the market -- they looked everywhere -- for three days, they searched for Him -- and, finally, they found Him in the temple courts, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions

 -- that’s what we do if we lose something -- we go back to where we last had it -- the place we last knew it was with us -- and begin our search there

            -- one of my favorite passages in the Bible is from the letter to the Church in Ephesus from Revelation 2 -- in verses 4 and 5 of this chapter, Jesus counsels the church in Ephesus -- He tells them to look around at what they are doing and what they have -- He tells them that they are doing a lot -- they are busy -- they have lots of programs and ministries going on -- they are busy serving the Lord

-- but they have forgotten something -- they have lost Jesus -- He tells them that they have forsaken their first love -- they had lost their first love -- and it doesn’t matter how much they do or how busy they are -- even being busy serving Him -- without Him, they are nothing -- and they need to find Him again

            -- and so, Jesus tells them to go back to where they were before -- to retrace their steps -- He tells them to remember and repent -- to do the things they did at first if they want to find their first love again -- if they want to find Jesus again

            -- that works for us, too

 

            -- Friedrich Justus Knecht wrote the following: “Mary lost Jesus through no fault of her own; but with what sorrow she sought Him -- with what joy she found Him! -- He to whom this misfortune has happened -- [to those of us who have lost Jesus in our lives] -- they must seek Jesus with sorrow and tears of penance, and he will find Him again in the Temple (His church)”

 

            -- what do we do when we lose something? -- what do we do when we lose Jesus and leave Him behind?

            -- we go back to where we last had Him -- we go back to the place we last knew Him -- we go back and begin doing the things we did when we were last with Him

            -- for some of us, that means coming back to church -- coming back to prayer -- to reading and studying the Bible -- to quiet times with God -- to setting aside the things of the world that are distracting us and intentionally seeking God throughout our day

            -- if we find that the reason for losing Jesus is the result of sin in our lives, we confess and repent of our sins -- we turn back to Him -- for, as John wrote in 1 John 1:9, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from unrighteousness” -- in other words, when we get right in our relationship with Him again, we will find Him there with us again

            -- and keep in mind that this restoration doesn’t come quickly -- it took Mary and Joseph three days to find Jesus -- it took the disciples three days to find Jesus again after His death on the cross -- it takes time for us to find that which was lost

-- don’t lose heart if you begin praying and reading the Bible and setting aside time with God only to not hear from Him or not feel Him near -- it takes time to get your heart back in alignment with His -- it takes time for you to get back to the place where you can find Him again

 

III.  Closing

-- Mary and Joseph searched diligently for Jesus for three days -- and then found Him in the place they should have gone to first -- they found Him in the temple -- astounding the teachers with His questions and His knowledge -- knowing more than someone at His age and His social status should know

-- when Mary finally found Jesus and exclaimed, “Why have you treated us like this? -- We’ve been searching for you night and day for three days!”, Jesus responded: “Why were you searching for Me? -- Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house?”

-- and it’s with that statement we realize that Jesus wasn’t the one who was truly lost in this story -- He was where He had always been -- He was where He should have been -- in His Father’s house -- doing the Father’s work

-- so, we come to realize here at the end of this story, that this is not a story about Mary and Joseph losing Jesus -- but about them leaving Him behind when they should have done what was necessary to keep Him close

 

            -- in the same way, when we feel like we have lost Jesus in our lives, it is not Him who is missing -- His absence is because we went on in life and just left Him behind

 

            -- it’s like the story of the married couple driving in a pickup truck -- one day, the wife mentioned how far away from her husband she was -- she told him, “when we first started dating, we always sat side by side and you would put your arm around me and just hug me while we rode around -- but now, I’m all the way over here by the window, and you can’t even touch me” -- to which her husband replied, “I’m not the one who moved”

 

-- so, to keep that from happening, we have to be intentional about where we are in relation to Jesus -- we have to be intentional about staying close to Him -- we have to be intentional about doing the things that keep us close to Him

-- we can’t let the busyness of life make us forget about Him -- we can’t let the worries of this world cause us to leave Him behind -- we have to be living for God -- we have to be in a right relationship with Him -- living holy and devout lives of faithfulness -- doing the things we need to do to keep Jesus by our side

-- Jesus didn’t leave Mary and Joseph -- they left Him -- and if you’re missing Him in your life this morning, then it’s probably because you did the same

 

            -- so, as we close this morning and leave this place and go back into the world, don’t forget to take Jesus with you -- look around -- make sure He’s with you

-- slide over into the middle seat again so you’re sitting right next to Him -- and don’t leave Him behind in your life

            -- let us pray

 

 

[Modified from 12 December 2021]

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