Sunday, September 15, 2024

SERMON: ARE YOU CARRYING ON, WAYWARD SON?

 


Naylor Community Christian Church

Naylor, Georgia

 

I.  Introduction

            -- turn in Bibles to 1 Thessalonians 3:5-10

 

1 Thessalonians 3:5-10

New International Version

 

5 For this reason, when I could stand it no longer, I sent to find out about your faith. I was afraid that in some way the tempter had tempted you and that our labors might have been in vain.

6 But Timothy has just now come to us from you and has brought good news about your faith and love. He has told us that you always have pleasant memories of us and that you long to see us, just as we also long to see you. 7 Therefore, brothers and sisters, in all our distress and persecution we were encouraged about you because of your faith. 8 For now we really live, since you are standing firm in the Lord. 9 How can we thank God enough for you in return for all the joy we have in the presence of our God because of you? 10 Night and day we pray most earnestly that we may see you again and supply what is lacking in your faith.

 

 

            -- if you happened to glance at your calendars this morning, you may have noticed that today is Grandparents Day – when Jimmy Carter was president, he set aside the first Sunday after Labor Day as Grandparents Day – a day “to honor grandparents … and to help children become aware of the strength, information, and guidance older people can offer.”

            -- normally, I don’t pay much attention to holidays like this – I certainly don’t craft messages for these “special” days on the calendar – but when I was led to this passage and began studying it, I realized that there is a connection between this excerpt from the Apostle Paul’s letter to the church at Thessalonica and the love and concern that grandparents have for their grandchildren

            -- most grandparents are distant from their grandchildren – they may live in the same town – the same community – but most grandparents are not with their grandchildren daily – they don’t see them every day – they don’t hear how their day went – they aren’t there to teach them or discipline them or lead them on a daily basis – that’s the job of the parents

– the parents have the responsibility of raising children – of teaching them how to become responsible adults – of guiding them and disciplining them and punishing them, as necessary – but grandparents are distant to that – especially those who are geographically separated from their grandchildren

– so, a lot of grandparents become worriers – they worry about their grandchildren – they worry about who they are – who they are becoming – and what they will be in the future – and they long for news of their grandchildren so they can be assured that everything is okay – that they are growing and learning and living well

-- with all the problems of social media, this is one thing that is good about it – it has enabled grandparents to stay in touch with their children and grandchildren in ways they couldn’t have done in the past – so, maybe some of the worrying and anxiety has been lessened for them in this current day

-- but the Apostle Paul didn’t have that luxury – and he was a worrier

 

-- Paul was not a grandfather – as best we can tell from the Scriptures and from church history, Paul never married and never had children – at least, physical children – but he had children and grandchildren in the faith – people and churches and communities of faith that he had founded or built upon that he loved and worried about when he was far away from them – communities like the church here in Thessalonica

-- as Rich Cathers wrote in his study on 1 Thessalonians1, Paul first came to Thessalonica on his second missionary journey – he had gotten into a disagreement with Barnabas, his partner on his first missionary journey, about Barnabas’ cousin, John Mark – Mark had abandoned them during their last visit, and Paul refused to take him with them on this new journey, even though Barnabas wanted to include him – the argument was so bad the partners split up like Simon and Garfunkel – each went their own way – and Paul asked Silas to go with him to visit the churches he had started on his previous journey

-- Paul and Silas ran into a lot of trouble on this trip – they were persecuted and thrown into prison – they were run out of town by both the Jews and the Gentiles – eventually, they found their way to Thessalonica, carrying with them young Timothy, who they had picked up during their travels

-- after spending three weeks in Thessalonica and preaching in the synagogue there with some success, the majority of the Jews got angry with Paul and his teachings, and threw the city into such an uproar that Paul and Silas were kicked out

-- they moved on to Berea and got kicked out of there – and it was at that point that Paul decided to go on to Athens alone – he sent Silas and Timothy back to the region of Macedonia – where Thessalonica was located – to check up on the new converts to Christianity that were in those cities – to strengthen them and to help them come together in true communities of faith – to become churches as Christ had intended

-- while Silas and Timothy were going back through Macedonia, Paul left Athens after a short while, and then moved on to Corinth, where he planted a church and stayed for a year and a half

-- and, sitting there in Corinth, Paul worried – he didn’t have Facebook or Instagram or any other way of checking up on Silas or Timothy or any of the fledgling churches he had started in Macedonia – so, he had no idea of what was going on – were they standing firm? – were they growing? – or had the Jews persecuted them, too? – had they abandoned their faith? – had they gone back to their old ways? – he had no idea – so, he sat there in Corinth and worried – just as grandparents worry about their grandchildren – just as parents worry about their children when they leave home after high school

-- so, with that background to this passage, let’s take a look at Paul’s concerns for the Thessalonian Church, as given to us in these verses

 

II.  Scripture Lesson (1 Thessalonians 3:5-10)

            -- verse 5

 

1 Thessalonians 3:5 For this reason, when I could stand it no longer, I sent to find out about your faith. I was afraid that in some way the tempter had tempted you and that our labors might have been in vain.

 

            -- so, here you see it in black-and-white – Paul was a worrier – and he worried about the faith of the converts in Thessalonica – remember, he had only been there for three weeks – he had not been there long enough to impart much instruction in the way of the Lord – even though he didn’t intend it to be this way, he ended up like a traveling evangelist who blows into town, preaches a message, and blows out again, leaving the converts to find their way on their own

            -- he worried and worried – finally, when he couldn’t stand it any longer, he sent a letter to find out how the Thessalonians were doing – he was afraid that they might have been led astray by the tempter and that all his labors in preaching the gospel had been in vain

 

            -- it’s hard when you don’t know how someone is doing – when you don’t hear about people you care about and you don’t know if they’re doing okay or not – that’s the concern of grandparents and parents – and that’s the concern of us who have lost touch with friends in the faith – with brothers and sisters we used to know

            -- are they doing okay? – are they continuing on? – is their faith secure, or have they fallen away?

            -- when the Russian revolution occurred and Lenin and Stalin established communism as the official political government of Russia and then the Soviet Union, Christians throughout the world worried about the Russian church – prior to the stand up of communism, the church had been strong in Russia -- 1914, there were 55,173 churches -- 29,593 chapels and over 100,00 priest and minsters in the country

            -- but religion was outlawed under communism – and the churches were destroyed, the people disbursed, and the pastors and ministers arrested and imprisoned or worse

            -- and because of the secretive nature of the communist government, the rest of the Christian community in the world had no news of what was happening – of what was actually going on with the individual Christians in that country

            -- and even though Stalin re-established the church in 1941, it was set up as an arm of the government – with strict controls on what was taught and on who could attend

– Christians around the world worried and assumed the worst – that true Christianity had been destroyed and replaced by a nationalistic religion that carried the name of Christ but actually served Stalin and the Soviet Union – everyone assumed that the true faith was gone forever

-- so, when the Iron Curtain fell and the way was made for western missionaries to once again go into Russia and the Soviet Union with the gospel, they expected to find a people with no knowledge of Christ – with no faith except a bastardized nationalistic faith that promoted Soviet ideals above that of Christ

-- but, to their surprise, they found a vibrant and thriving church community that had existed by going underground – by meeting in secret – by carrying on the truth of God’s word by living out their faith hidden from the eyes of their government overlords

-- the church was secure – the faith was strong – and the people were standing with the Lord

-- and this is what Paul discovered when he received a response to his letter concerning the status of the church in Thessalonica

 

-- verse 6

 

1 Thessalonians 3:6 But Timothy has just now come to us from you and has brought good news about your faith and love. He has told us that you always have pleasant memories of us and that you long to see us, just as we also long to see you.

 

-- Timothy returned from Thessalonica to Corinth, and brought Paul good news about the faith and the love of the church that he had founded there – they were standing fast – they were growing in their faith and their love for each other was evident

-- the mark of a true church is faith and love – you have to have both

 

-- faith speaks of our relationship with God – it is more than head knowledge – it is heart knowledge – when we speak of someone’s faith – of a church’s faith – we speak of their continuing state of reliance on Christ

            -- we’re all familiar with the biblical definition of faith from Hebrews 11:1 – “faith is being sure of what you hope for – certain of what you do not see” – when you read that definition, it seems to be talking about just knowledge of the good news of Christ -- but what the author of Hebrews is implying here is that faith is more than knowledge – it is being so sure and so certain of what you believe in, that you take action based on your knowledge – you step out in faith – you live life based on your faith

            -- there’s an illustration I’ve used before when talking about faith, but it just so clearly demonstrates what the Bible means that I can’t help but share it again – if you saw the movie, “Indiana Jones and the Search for the Holy Grail,” you’ll remember the moment when Indiana Jones has found the location of the grail – it is across this huge chasm – and a monk on the other side is standing next to the grail, beckoning Jones to step out across the chasm to come to him

-- Jones looks down, and can’t see the bottom – it is ludicrous to think that the monk expects Jones to step out and trust in an invisible bridge that he can’t see or feel – to step out into nothingness and trust that he will not fall

-- but he does – and the bridge is there – and he makes it across – that is biblical faith – being so sure of what you hope for – so certain of what you do not see – that you are willing to step out into the unknown carrying nothing but trust in Jesus – that is the faith that Timothy says the church at Thessalonica has

 

 -- but faith is not enough to be a thriving and vibrant church – it must also have love – the Greek word that is translated here as love is agape – unconditional love – the love of choice – the love of serving with humility – the highest kind of love

-- the faith of the Thessalonians had led them to be filled with the truest form of love – the love of will – the love that reaches out to others as an act of self-sacrifice to serve the recipient – love not based on pleasant emotions or good feelings – on physical attraction or familial bonds – but the love of God that comes from true faith

-- faith and love must be together for us to be who Christ has called us to be – faith and love must be present for us to be holy as He is holy – faith is demonstrated through love – and love is demonstrated through works and acts of service – and the church at Thessalonica had both faith and love beyond measure

 

            -- Timothy went on to report that the Thessalonians always had pleasant memories of Paul – they longed to see him again just as Paul longed to see them

– and this was not just words – just something you say when you see an old friend – “Oh, we’ve been thinking of you – we need to get together” – and then you never do

-- no, this speaks of relationship – it speaks of shared memories – shared experiences – especially experiences in the Lord – Paul’s teaching of them was done in such a way that they longed to hear him again – to sit at his feet again – to learn from him again – he made an impact on their lives

            -- if we think back to our school days, all of us had that special teacher that we loved – the one we remember to this day – the one whose class you enjoyed – who made their lessons come alive – and it seems like those teachers are the ones who also remember their students through the years – not just the class, but the individuals – teaching was a relationship – filled with love -- and that is what we see here with Paul and the Thessalonians

            -- more than any other familial relationship, this is the relationship that grandparents share with their grandkids – they don’t have the day-to-day responsibilities of teaching and disciplining and leading towards adulthood – instead, the time they share with their grandchildren is special – and that relationship is special – there is a longing and a love and a mentoring that grandparents offer that others can’t – Paul had that same type of relationship with the Thessalonians as their grandparent in the faith

 

-- verse 7

 

1 Thessalonians 3:7 Therefore, brothers and sisters, in all our distress and persecution we were encouraged about you because of your faith. 8 For now we really live, since you are standing firm in the Lord. 9 How can we thank God enough for you in return for all the joy we have in the presence of our God because of you?

 

-- the Apostle John wrote in 3 John 4, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth” – that’s the exact same sentiment the Apostle Paul expresses here after Timothy reported on the faith and love of the Thessalonians

 

-- he had been worried about the Thessalonians losing their faith because after he founded the church, he was unable to provide additional support and mentoring because of the distress and persecution he faced – he couldn’t check on them for a period of time and was worried – he feared they had turned back and lost their way – but now Timothy has reported back that everything was good – and you can sense the relief that Paul feels now after having heard this

 

            -- this is a common fear when we send our children and our grandchildren off to be on their own – will they prosper on their own? – will they continue on in their faith?

            -- sadly, statistics show this is a major concern – depending on the source, we know that somewhere between 70 and 90% of freshmen do not make a church connection when they go to college – of course, that is speaking of students who leave home and their local communities and go off to areas outside of where they grew up

            -- but even those who remain locally struggle to maintain their faith, as their studies absorb time and energy – as the independence and freedom lead them to turn away from the restrictions of their childhood – asnew friends and new ideas influence them, usually leading them away from the church

            -- it is a worry – and it is an area where the church has not done well – we have not prepared our young men and women to be on their own – when we separate them from the life of the church and isolate them into age groups, we’re keeping them from growing in their faith and bonding with Christians who may be older than them

– so, when they go out on their own, they don’t know how to live as Christian adults, and they lose their foundations

 

            -- seeing Paul’s concern here reminds me of the story of the man whose son left home to go to college -- he was very concerned that when his son got under the influence of the liberal college professors that he would lose his faith in God and in God's Word -- so he pleaded with his son, "Son, don't let them take your faith away -- don't let them take the Bible from you -- at the very least, don't let them take the Book of Jonah from you"

-- so, the son went off to college, and after four years, he returned -- his father greeted him and said, "Son, how is your faith? -- do you still trust in God?  -- do you still believe in the Book of Jonah?"  -- the son looked at him and said, "What are you talking about?  There is no such thing as the Book of Jonah in the Bible"

-- so his father ran and got his Bible off the shelf and opened it up -- he looked, but the Book of Jonah wasn't in there -- he looked at the table of contents, and it was listed, but when he turned over to where it should be, it was missing

-- He looked up at his son in confusion and said, "What happened to Jonah?" -- the son said, "I cut it out of your Bible on the day I left for college four years ago.  What is worse: losing Jonah because your faith was challenged or losing Jonah through neglect?"

 

            -- here in America, we’re losing our faith through neglect – and it’s not just the younger generation -- if you look at statistics right now, Christianity is in a decline in America –

“28% of Americans classify themselves as "nones," 17% of whom identify as atheist, 20% as agnostic and 63% as "nothing in particular." -- Most "nones" said they were raised to be religious, and the majority were raised in Christian households.

-- “[The] 'Nones' tend to vote less often, do less volunteer work in their communities and follow public affairs at lower rates than religiously affiliated people do -- on a variety of measures, lower rates of civic engagement are concentrated among 'nones' whose religion is 'nothing in particular.'”2  

 

            -- the Barna Research Group is showing the same decline in faith and religion as other surveys – they report that the number of practicing Christians – those who agree that faith is important in their lives and who attend church at least monthly – has dropped from 50% of the population in 2000 to just 25% in 2020 – that means that only one in four Americans are now practicing Christians

            -- the rest are either considered non-practicing or non-Christians, which includes the “nones”

            -- even here in our community we are seeing declines in church attendance – the number of people attending has dropped precipitously – and while some may have been drawn to larger churches with more programs and activities, the statistics show that a lot of these people who are absent from our churches have just quit going and joined the ranks of non-practicing – when Covid hit and churches closed in an effort to protect their communities from the disease, many people never came back

 

            -- so, Paul was right to worry about the Thessalonians – who were isolated and left alone to continue on in their faith and worship – and it’s right for us to be worried about our children and our grandchildren – and to worry about the others in our community – how are we doing in our faith? – what can we do to increase the faith here in Naylor and beyond?

-- you can imagine the relief Paul felt when he learned the Thessalonians were prospering in the faith – that they were still following God and loving and serving those around them with an agape love

            -- that’s why he says here in verse 9, “How can we thank God enough for you?” – Paul was just so happy at how the Thessalonians had persevered and thrived in the faith, his praise and thankfulness to God was immense – he was filled with joy and praise at how God had sustained them through their isolation

 

-- verse 10

 

1 Thessalonians 3:10 Night and day we pray most earnestly that we may see you again and supply what is lacking in your faith.

 

-- Paul longed to return to Thessalonica and see his friends there so he could continue their growth and maturity – so he could continue to teach them more about their faith and help them to grow in grace

            -- one of the main roles of a pastor is to teach – to edify the saints – to equip them to go out and live their faith in their communities

            -- Paul is known primarily as the greatest evangelist in the Bible – the man who traveled so far on three missionary journeys and founded so many communities of faith – but he should also be known as a great teacher – one who taught and mentored and discipled these communities – who led them to grow in grace so that they would be able to function on their own after he had moved on

            -- to keep the faith – to share the faith – to grow the faith – in our church communities and in our families – we must be intentional about teaching and mentoring and discipling – for that is how a foundation of faith is built that sustains the next generation of believers – whether young or old

 

            -- that’s why Paul says he longs to come see them – so that he might supply what is lacking – they were still young in the faith, and they needed to be taught how to grow and move on in their faith to even deeper levels of intimacy with God and one another

 

III.  Closing

            -- so, let’s bring this to a close for this morning by considering the question -- How often do you think about your brothers and your sisters in Christ who are distant from you? – do you worry about their faith? – are you concerned with how they are walking with the Lord?

            -- Paul was worried about the Christians in Thessalonica – even in the midst of his distress and persecution, he worried about them – he thought of them often and lifted them up in his prayers – and we need to do the same

            -- we need to pray for those we know who are in danger of being led away from the faith – our children – our grandchildren – students in this community – other believers who we haven’t talked with in a while – especially believers new in the faith

            -- we need to ask God to protect them – to fill them – to grow them in their faith – to fill them with His love – to fill them with the knowledge of His Son and how to walk in faith and love

            -- and we need to reach out to them and check on them, if we can – to make sure of where they are with the Lord – to pick them up if they have fallen – to come alongside them in their spiritual lives

            -- that is why we are here – that is what we are to do as the church

 

            -- next week, we’ll pick back up in this passage and look at the three petitions Paul makes in his prayer for the Thessalonians here in verses 11-13 as he looks at the next steps he needs to take to help bolster the faith and love of the Thessalonians

            -- so, as we close, take a moment and see if there is anyone that comes to mind you need to check on – you need to reach out to – and lift them up in prayer as we close together this morning

            -- but I want you to do one more thing – actually reach out to them – call them – text them – email them – message them on Facebook or Instagram or SnapChat – whatever you need to do – however you can do it – just reach out and see how your friend is doing and come alongside them in their walk

            -- let us pray

 

1 Rich Cathers -- https://www.calvaryfullerton.org/Bstudy/52%201Th/2000/521Th01-03.htm

2 More than 1 in 4 U.S. adults identify as religious "nones," new data shows. Here's what this means. By C Mandler. January 24, 2024 / 5:09 PM EST / CBS News

 

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